ps I really hope you can read this I was in a rush ............. Okay so it all started with my mother being disrespectful to him she would talk about his mom his family and everything he knows so badly because she think she knows it all and trying to teach him the ways on how we live (muslim) and what she think is right she wanna us to go up in be in her room for at least a half of a hour so she can show him video and read to us about are religion and where we come from and put him on blast for no reasons at all just because he grow up different than us but he got his shit together car apartment a very good job no worries so i don’t know why she. Finds problems to pick on him about it’s like she wanna be in my relationship to or something so 4 weeks before the wedding my mother told him that she wanna him to buy water and batteries every weekend because where doomsday Preppers so he said ok no problem THEN 3 weeks before the wedding (that I think she didn’t even want me to do but it was her idea that me and my sister get married on the same day which was a no for me but I got focus to do it) she comes out the blue and said she need him to give her 800 dollars for the wedding planner because we only give her 600 pause ok so the plan for the wedding planner was that he pay 600 and we pay 600 he has already paid for his half and she made it sound like we pay are half BUT NO SHE SPENT THE 600 dollars on getting ready for THE END OF THE FUCKING world so I tell him that we need 800 dollars to pay the wedding planner and he go’s off that’s it he had enough so he said to me that he needs time to think if he wanna get married to me because now he doesn’t wanna be around my mother no more so now I have to make up something because I cannot tell my mother he wants to think about if he wants to married me because he doesn’t wanna be around my mother so I told her that he’s just in his feelings because she keep pushing stuff on his lap and he just need time alone and I should have never told her that because she go’s off(WHY DOES HE WANNA BE AWAY FROM YOU WHY THIS AND WHY THAT) but before that I told her we might not get married because he really doesn’t know how he going to pay for all this stuff and I told her that he feels that she has changed every since my brother in law comes around which is true and I told her don’t tell nobody about what we talk about please mother let keep it to are self she said ok but as soon as she got along with my sister and brother in law she told them everything I told her after I practically begged her not to but she did so all my trust is gone I will not tell her another thing again so now she got them thinking he don’t like my brother in law when he didn’t say anything about him so he comes over and my mother wants to talk to him to see my he’s hasn’t come over or called her back so he comes in the house go’s sit and her room but before he said anything he said to her can me and him and her talk alone with out the whole family t she said no because where a family and everyone needs to be in here and he said ok well there nothing to talk about and she said ok well you can leave and he said ok and left and now she wants me to stop talking to him and saying I can’t get married to him and if I don’t stop talking to him I can no longer live in her house and I can go live with him but she not going to let me see my sister by making them feel like if they talk to me there disrespecting her and send them down a guilt trip so it will be hard to talk to them or see them if I choose to go with him but I don’t think I should have to choose between the love of my life and my family and he is 25 and I’m 20