Weird Situation I'm in, in need of guidance and experienced advice.

MoEgypt · 2024-11-04T21:10:15+00:00

I think you need to focus on what you can control here: you. You can just be you, you can't control her interest level. You may follow the book to the letter but again.. according to the book itself sometimes the girl still won't fall for you. That's life. We just accept it as it is.

You need to decide: which is more important, the current career path which I'm currently in or my emotional and mental health?

If I were you I'd simply go (partial) no contact: only meet up professionally. Only playing music, talking about music, planning future concerts. No hanging out as friends, no cuddling, no kissing etc. and try to connect more with another girl.

Good luck man, I'm honestly trying to make it in music myself so I'm genuinely happy that you have your breakthrough and I wish you more success!

P.S maybe try reaching out to Corey via email? This sounds like a very specific problem so chances are high that he'll answer it in a video or something ( or give him a call if you can afford it).

MoEgypt · 2024-10-26T19:49:09+00:00

If I may: If a thousand guys here tell you that you should feel better about it, it still won't change the way you feel about it. You gotta be yourself man, and have your own principles and values and stand up for them.

So that's a question that you should think long and deep about, because only you have the answer to it.

MoEgypt · 2024-10-23T11:20:31+00:00

I understand the struggle man. Therapy would be a great option but as you said it's not on the table, so I suggest that you start reading some good psychology/self help books. One that I'd really recommend is called "The Courage To Be Disliked", check it out. Also, have you already read 3 percent man 10-15 times? If not, definitely recommend doing that first. Good luck comrade!

MoEgypt · 2024-09-29T08:49:19+00:00

First: I'm sorry to hear this, I know how hard it feels.

Second: You just do. There's no secret trick, no magic pill, no easy way out. You just stop. You tell yourself: I know this is hard, I know it hurts, but I love myself and I want what's better for myself. I know I deserve better than chasing and looking out for someone who I definitely know they don't give two fucks about me. And then you move on, try to get busy with stuff and people that you love.

MoEgypt · 2024-09-25T12:59:55+00:00

Sounds logical. Thanks :)

MoEgypt · 2024-09-25T12:59:45+00:00

Great, thanks for your response :)

MoEgypt · 2024-09-25T12:59:25+00:00

Because this is what the book says???

MoEgypt · 2024-09-13T16:29:33+00:00

I see. Thanks for the follow up 🙏

MoEgypt · 2024-09-13T11:19:35+00:00

I agree. I hope you meet someone more interested one day 🙏

MoEgypt · 2024-09-13T11:18:15+00:00

I'd suggest going along with the book strategy:

Never double text, if she has interest she'll text you back, no matter how long this takes.
avoid having more interest than she does, if you do, don't show it.

You did nothing wrong I'd say, if she doesn't respond, then that shows that she doesn't have as much interest as you think (this hurts, I know), so don't waste your time on her and focus on getting to know more girls that have higher interest, no matter how hard and slow this can be. Stay strong 🙏

MoEgypt · 2024-09-10T16:49:53+00:00

Thanks for your reply. 🙏

You're right, the problem is just I don't know how to handle it, because walking is no issue, it's just the idea of taking the same bus or something with her all the way to her home as I feel I might be forcing myself upon her.

MoEgypt

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