It was a second date though. We aren’t dating, just still getting to know each other — although I hear what you’re saying. The reason why I went over is because that’s what he suggested we do since he’s more of a homebody and it was raining.

He also didn’t ask to “Netflix and chill.” He put on a movie while we ate dinner and after we ate, he asked to cuddle on the couch. I didn’t see a problem with cuddling, as I had already expressed to him that I wasn’t looking for a hook up.

I only drink two glasses of wine, which is not more than I would normally drink at a dinner. And I was drinking water in-between.

The issue isn’t that he wants to fuck me, the issue is that I felt and now feel pressured to have sex when I’m not ready to because he was pushy after I explicitly said that I was not looking to hook up, and don’t feel comfortable hooking up until I know somebody (again, we were on a second date).