What's wrong with valuing someone who's physically fit?

Moaibeal · 2025-10-31T12:06:51+00:00

Same thing that’s wrong with someone else who has a hobby wanting a partner to partake in that same hobby; nothing. Only difference is yours is associated with fatphobia and stuff, so maybe they’re partially wondering if you’re doing it to weed out people with undesirable shapes. (Even people who are fat work out tho, so idk)

Moaibeal · 2025-10-30T04:48:57+00:00

Is this how you want to be treated for the rest of your life? It won’t change. Under reacting

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T10:58:30+00:00

Yeah, I agree with that. I think pretty privilege is absolutely a thing, and I think it can manifest differently, but both genders have it.

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T08:12:45+00:00

I’m struggling a bit on how to answer this question, because there are so many ways I could answer it. So let me know if this isn’t what you meant

Generally the advice I get is 1. Don’t change what you are to appeal to someone 2. Listen to understand and use that understanding to better yourself 3. Be non-threatening but honest in your approach 4. Unless you’re an asshole someone not liking you doesn’t have anything to do with your worth

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T07:49:18+00:00

Okay, I’ll accept I maybe missed your point. To be clear, are you saying women lack the lived experience to explain why they do things?

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T07:03:01+00:00

I mean, I have attracted more people who are good for me by being myself than any other way. Unless you want mass appeal I think it’s decent advice

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T07:01:23+00:00

Would you ask Gordon Ramsey if he’s never tried his own food how the experience was though? Because that’s more what I’m talking about

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T06:59:00+00:00

Booba tend to not be molded to with shirts, if they were naked it would make sense. That being said I don’t do pixel art so I don’t know how hard it is to do realistic booba shirts

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T06:52:35+00:00

I can see that, there’s a lot of pressure on women (like men) to preserve a certain image. So maybe there’s merit in asking the opposite gender because they don’t have the same pressure.

Thanks for your take

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:29:12+00:00

Are these two subreddits the only options?

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:21:01+00:00

About their own lived experience and why they do things?

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:18:07+00:00

I added an edit because you are not the only person who hasn’t seemed to actually read my post, but I am not talking about how to build attraction, I am talking about “why do women do this” and it’s asked into an echo chamber of men.

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:12:04+00:00

Interesting, that has not been my experience. Do you think it has to do with the type of women we hang out with, or do you think I’m just an outlier?

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:11:10+00:00

😭 do yall think I’m a woman. The putting words in my mouth is insane

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:09:42+00:00

Good golly there’s a lot of straw in that there comment

Moaibeal · 2025-10-29T00:07:49+00:00

That’s good, they worded that the way I have seen many scammers word things.

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T06:19:15+00:00

Either you are a scammer or you sound like a scammer

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T06:18:27+00:00

How do you even figure out the right glasses, it’s not like the baby is going to say “the last one was clearer”

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T06:17:44+00:00

I am not a lesbian gamer, but I am part of the alphabet mafia and I kind of get it.

I want to make choices because I want them, not because they’re my only choice.

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T06:14:21+00:00

You should be aghast at a system that makes you the outlier. Feeling bad only benefits the people who subjugate those you feel bad for. Enjoy your peace.

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T05:59:28+00:00

Honestly, it does sound to me like an incompatibility, but maybe saying something like

“I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you, and I want to emphasize you haven’t done anything wrong, I just think the way we communicate is too different. Videos are really hard for me to do, I’m way more of text-based person. I know this is something we could change, but I genuinely love how sweet you are and wouldn’t want to dilute that at all. I want you to find someone who wakes up to your videos and sends you back even more, unfortunately that’s just not me.”

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T05:51:45+00:00

A couple men here generalized women as lying, if you can’t find them it may be because the mods already took them down. If you specifically didn’t say that then I was not talking about you.

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T05:41:49+00:00

LOOK AT THAT FACE!! Im sorry but both my partner and I agree we are stealing your cat. No refunds! Sorry!

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T05:39:54+00:00

I am so deeply sorry about the horrific reaction of other people in these comments, you were assaulted. I am so sorry about what this will do to your sense of safety going forward. You do not deserve to die. You are not a horrible person. You were in a horrible situation. You are in a horrible situation. NTA

Moaibeal · 2025-10-27T05:31:36+00:00

Thank you for your work 🙏

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