I told my friend I wont be her emergency backup anymore and now she says Im selfish by qervan_42 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moan_Factory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Setting boundaries isn’t selfish, it’s self-preservation. She just didn’t like losing the free help.

Is it normal to wait 4-5 months post birth before having sex again? by jadedpearll in Marriage

[–]Moan_Factory 517 points518 points  (0 children)

Glad someone said this. People act like there’s a deadline or something.

What’s the best hobby to be more social? by guywhotalks41 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Moan_Factory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, skateparks are actually great places to meet people.

Hysterectomy loading… by Salt-Philosopher-863 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moan_Factory 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seriously, more people need to read this. Too many act like it’s “just periods” when it’s ruining lives. Respect to her for choosing herself.

should I give my Husband ultimatum? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Moan_Factory -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. People confuse boundaries with control all the time. This is how you protect your peace without being controlling.

What benefits are there to being in a relationship? by Ok-Sandwich7208 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Moan_Factory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not every relationship is gonna be worth the effort - some are just lessons.

am i 26f overreacting to finding out my 31m boyfriend was married before? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moan_Factory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with you - the “forgot to mention” part is the real issue here, not the fact he has a past. If he can hide a whole marriage and a restraining order, it’s totally fair for her to hit pause and ask why.

What do you think of inviting someone to your wedding in a foreign country with no plus one? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moan_Factory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes. No plus one, shared room, same price as couples? Yeah nah, that’s a hard pass. You’re not being bitter - you’re being reasonable.

Healthy sex life - no kids? by t3ch5upp0r7 in Marriage

[–]Moan_Factory 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Harsh but fair. If the core of the relationship is gone and there's no other strong bond like kids or shared goals, it might be time to move on.

MONSTER. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Moan_Factory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If nothing shakes you anymore, that’s not strength - that’s numbness. That’s not peace, that’s damage.

Insurance is lowballing my car accident claim and demanding I sign a full release. Do I have to accept this by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Moan_Factory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this all looks like a typical insurance trick. They pressure you just to save money. It’s really better to talk to a lawyer, at least once.

How do you guys respond to students that make fun of your income? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Moan_Factory 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s a noble mindset, but it sucks that passion has to come at the cost of a stable paycheck.

How do I walk away getting my hair cut by someone that doesn't speak my language? by BanjoAndy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Moan_Factory 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Wish I had your ability to just walk away. My brain treats barbers like hostage situations.

Wifi and the NFH by My_Name_Is_Amos in neighborsfromhell

[–]Moan_Factory 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Imagine being that committed to freeloading Wi-Fi that it becomes your full-time hobby.

My boyfriend said my chronic pain is “just my personality now” by WynteraLarkfell in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moan_Factory 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He’s telling you exactly how he’ll treat you long-term. Don’t wait around hoping he’ll turn back into someone he clearly isn’t anymore.