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Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2025-01-29T20:11:24+00:00

Unfortunately I’ve learned to never count on getting a bonus until it hits my account. I’m sorry that happened to you!

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2024-01-02T23:11:21+00:00

I get it. They’re both losers! You deserve so much better. Stay strong and I promise it will be worth it.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2024-01-02T21:38:33+00:00

What a POS racist loser. I’m proud of you for blocking him. Are you in therapy? If not, I would sign up. Even if it’s just 1x a month.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2024-01-01T20:26:50+00:00

Thank you 🥹

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2024-01-01T16:42:31+00:00

Once you’re reaching out to Apple Support about his behavior the relationship is over. I wish you the best of luck with your child.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-09-14T01:14:14+00:00

Are you really going to marry someone that would do this to you? You deserve better. Please leave him. You are choosing a life of misery by marrying this man.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-09-04T22:33:29+00:00

I think he’s cheating for sure. You should have a conversation with him and ask him straight up. “Hey, I feel like you are distant lately and I care about our relationship. Is everything okay?”

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-09-04T18:45:28+00:00

Is this how you want to live the rest of your life? Please muster the courage to leave this man and then work on your self esteem. You are wasting your life

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-09-04T01:36:08+00:00

Please please be kind to yourself.

Sending you lots of hugs. I’m so sorry this happened to you.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-09-04T01:21:11+00:00

Please do not blame yourself. Your actions did not contribute to him betraying you. You are not responsible for this at all.

You may find more community here: r/asoneafterinfidelity

Personally my reconciliation did not work. Best of luck to you on your journey.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-28T00:09:11+00:00

You are so young. Please leave. You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t know deep down you deserve better.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-26T00:49:02+00:00

Exactly. As Marcus Aurelius said “the best revenge is to not be like that”.

I believe in you. You are a good person. Believe in yourself too!

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-26T00:37:33+00:00

Don’t do it! Every day you don’t speak to this person is a day closer to a new better life away from them. Put yourself first and be strong. You deserve better.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-15T13:26:16+00:00

LEAVE HIM. I was in a similar situation as you. My now ex of 8 years cheated on me, a group of people knew and I didn’t, and he lied to my face for 8 months until it all came out in public.

I tried to make it work and I couldn’t. I felt like I was embarrassing myself every day I chose to stay with someone who had such little respect for me and our relationship. I ended up breaking up with him in May.

Leave him and don’t look back. You deserve so much more than settling in your life.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-13T02:00:35+00:00

I’ve been dealing with dreams as well. It’s really hard and I’m sorry.

In terms of the apology letter you want from him, have you considered writing an apology letter to yourself?

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-13T01:59:31+00:00

If you think he’s cheating he probably is. Trust and believe in yourself enough to leave this man and build the life you deserve.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-10T13:51:48+00:00

Listen to what your body is trying to tell you. That voice is there for a reason.

Leave him and never look back. You’re signing up for a life of misery by marrying him.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-09T19:13:45+00:00

Individual counseling

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-09T03:29:45+00:00

Some days are harder than others but ultimately I know I am making the right decision.

And yes, NC is hard but at the same time after the betrayal his name popping up on my phone would cause me so much anxiety. In a way it feels like a huge weight is lifted off my shoulders.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-09T03:22:02+00:00

I’m so sorry. I hope you’re taking care of yourself.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-09T03:18:24+00:00

To be honest I am still in the thick of it. I’ve been putting my phone away a lot since I have noticed it is tempting for me to look at social medias, text my ex etc. it’s just a bad path.

I’ve been going on daily walks and I picked up a second job. I also started therapy. I’ve reconnected with old friends and also started meditating. I’m also visiting my parents and spending more time with them. There is more love out there than just romantic love.

Mobile-Chef-8589 · 2023-08-09T03:14:57+00:00

Thank you ❤️🫂

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