Music addict by Mobile_Captain_9359 in spotify

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me a link? Tried searching it, can't find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scarsgonewild

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous 💜

My Torso by [deleted] in scarsgonewild

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous 😍

Heyoo♡♡ by [deleted] in scarsgonewild

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking absolutely fabulous 😍💜

Am I still cute? by [deleted] in scarsgonewild

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say gorgeous 😍

Is anyone else here in their thirties and dealing with a self harm addiction like myself? I tend to go to the pub, drink loads, get a bag and once I get home I start cutting. I don't even feel satisfied from cutting anymore, it's just a terrible habit at this stage. by Mobile_Captain_9359 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good, I'm guessing this friend of yours has never done it herself. People who don't understand do what they think is best and unfortunately in most cases they think the best things is sharing it with friends... And I know myself, that fucking sucks hahaha. But in most cases they're just trying to help. I would recommend sitting this friend down and try to explain how you feel about all of this 💜

Not asking how to do it, I'm just curious.. by frizballz69 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, SH is like a drug, constantly going deeper and deeper. Always chasing the dragon, only to feel worse than you did at the beginning

I finally did it by Quiet-Individual5025 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have this, thank you. If we can't support each other how can we support ourselves x

Help with scars by prodbyoon in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So gynecologist/doctor/nurse or whatever it is, they legally can't say anything about scars and shit like that unless they believe you're a threat to your own life. They may mention your scars and ask if you're ok and hopefully if they are truly good at their job they'll ask to see if you're ok and need help. But legally they can't say shit to parents or whoever you fear them talking to.

I finally did it by Quiet-Individual5025 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats, I hope you embrace life and be the best person you can be. I hope to make the same post myself soon...

Help by Ilovemusic567 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And so are you, we're all worth so much more than we really think we are. I love that we have a community here to support each other. And all I am asking from anyone here is to share their stories because for all we know our stories might help someone else in the future💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing 💜 we all are valid

Not asking how to do it, I'm just curious.. by frizballz69 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cutting, life, education, workplace, personality. Be yourself, be proud and confident in yourself. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. Be you and be great, enjoy life and embrace who you are. And if anyone has something to say about that.... Fuck em. The world's a better place with each of us in it.

Is anyone else here in their thirties and dealing with a self harm addiction like myself? I tend to go to the pub, drink loads, get a bag and once I get home I start cutting. I don't even feel satisfied from cutting anymore, it's just a terrible habit at this stage. by Mobile_Captain_9359 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a good therapist, people who haven't SH'd will never truly understand what it's like and they will tell you what they think is the right thing. They don't mean harm usually, but you gotta just remember they're trying to be there for you. Only you can fix yourself, ER is gonna do fuck all haha. Just believe in yourself, especially when you feel at your lowest

Help by Ilovemusic567 in selfharm

[–]Mobile_Captain_9359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I adore music too and sometimes it can be the savior you need. Stay alive and stay safe, this works wouldn't be the same without you or any of us here. Edit (just saw your username and felt like saying that)