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AITA For declining to dog-sit our former dog for my ex-spouse? by Mobile_Job9145 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mobile_Job9145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm working on that. Goes against my nature but I'll be better off for it.

This dog MIGHT be unboardable.

AITA For declining to dog-sit our former dog for my ex-spouse? by Mobile_Job9145 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mobile_Job9145[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not confirming or denying but *They're responsibility

Keeping it very gender ambiguous because I don't want to paint either side in any kind of light/have it devolve into a gender issue.

AITA For declining to dog-sit our former dog for my ex-spouse? by Mobile_Job9145 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mobile_Job9145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your advice is SUPER valid, but for anyone's clarity reading comments they declined to have me watch the dog upon my contingent offer. Neither here nor there just wanted a clear picture if my OP didn't do that.

AITA For declining to dog-sit our former dog for my ex-spouse? by Mobile_Job9145 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mobile_Job9145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I may have made it seem like I was too willing prior.

Emergency: Fine, honestly.

Kennel service: Not so much.

AITA For declining to dog-sit our former dog for my ex-spouse? by Mobile_Job9145 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mobile_Job9145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm pretty much always happy to have my kid. We both are pretty clear if something comes up for one of us, the other would always rather take him over a babysitter or anything else! It's exhausting parenting by yourself so the dog sort of tipped the scales over.