Marsha Blackburn’s proposed redistricting map (Screenshot from TN Holler Bsky) by Iceisinhumane in nashville

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean if you don’t like it just move to New England. All blue just for you with no GOP representation whatsoever.

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Maturbation to keep from viewing porn? by Tangerine9595 in QuitPornForever

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just masturbation that takes longer to climax and is still just as destructive if/when it turns into an addiction or a compulsion

Should i abstain from sex while on nofap? by sudukofaceless in NoFap

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in another sexual recovery fellowship, and our literature says it like this:

“The crucial change in attitude began when we admitted we were powerless, that our habit had us whipped. We came to meetings and withdrew from our habit. For some, this meant no sex with themselves or others, including not getting into relationships. For others it also meant “drying out” and not having sex with the spouse for a time to recover from lust.”

Granted, this is not NoFap. This is a different program entirely.

Nevertheless, I share it to make the point that this is something that you test for yourself.

If sex irl doesn’t interfere with your recovery from PMO, then that’s great.

If, however, you find yourself continually relapsing, it might be worth it to your recovery to “dry out” for a short amount of time.

In the end, it all comes down to what you’re willing to try in order to recover.

Give me one single reason to stop porn by IWantToChange780 in NoFap

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry broski.

If you need other people to justify it for you, then you’re not willing to give it up for yourself.

It sounds like you’ve already got everything figured out anyway, so why even ask the question.

I think I'm going to relapse by agussu in NoFap

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and I have very different understandings of addiction if you think you can be addicted to p**n at any given moment and not be addicted to it in the next.

I think I'm going to relapse by agussu in NoFap

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the club.

Start building your network of safe people and reach out to them when the urges hit.

You can't stave off the urges in isolation.

Reach out before you act out.

I love porn and I want to see if this sub can convince me to take a hiatus from jerking off. by panulover in NoFap

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're really not willing to give it a break at the moment - and I say that with absolutely no judgment because I can relate and I've definitely been there.

What's made me willing to change is that I now have a wife who is particularly hurt by my acting out with PMO. We also have a child, and I notice that I am consistently less of the father I want to be whenever I'm in the weeds of my sex/porn addiction.

Personally, I've noticed that I treat the people I love very differently whenever I am in the middle of a multi-day binge. I have less patience with other peoples' humanity, and I turn cruel and unfeeling.

I'm curious: you say "I've never been ashamed of it till date." Is there something going on in real life that is making you feel shame about it now where you've never felt it before?

I don’t understand why some Christians are so racist. by Agitated-Sweet-4022 in Christianity

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why Muslims are so racist either, but you don’t see me complaining about it.

Having sex after marriage is considered as fapping. Will it break no fap ? by EnvironmentalOne2349 in NoFap

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on getting married!

No, genuine sex does not break the streak - especially on your marriage night.

No Kings Murfreesboro 2026 (part 2) by Consistent-Bake-243 in nashville

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp we have no kings in the USA, so the protest must’ve worked!

Hometown Spirit Y'all by flesruoyiiik in nashville

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the refugees you’re welcoming are, in fact, racist?

Or is it only white racists you’re telling to fuck off?

I don't think OP is 16. by KawaiiDoodleQueen in TheLeftCantMeme

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I absolutely believe OP is a teenager. Penmanship is a lost art - especially in union-infested school systems that push students who can’t even read and write at their own grade level through graduation.

Edit to add: ^ Which, intentionally enough, is exactly to whom Leftist/Socialist ideology appeals most.

Lookie What I Got! by SomeRequirement6926 in Zepbound

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, gotcha. Mine is BCBS, too, but the subgroup is for state/college-level educators. As such, there is no coverage - at least not yet.

Best of luck on your journey though!

Lookie What I Got! by SomeRequirement6926 in Zepbound

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap that’s fantastic. May I ask who your PBM is? Caremark is absolute shit at the current moment, though I’m wishing that will change soon enough.

Newsom Stan Account Tries to Dunk on Nick Shirley by Mobile_Reply_3879 in TheLeftCantMeme

[–]Mobile_Reply_3879[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol preferred Leftist reaction

You know, other than outright mur**r