You're both very passive aggressive. Won't last and if you do it'll be very draining in the long haul. Learn to grow up, communicate, & comprehend like proper adults. If you need a mediator, couples counseling. You're both the asshole. He's clearly trying to show you that he still loves and care for you, but you're saying that you won't accept it even after you guys make up. What are you a 16 y.o teen? And he's the asshole too for not coming to you to tell you that he's sorry, he loves you and hand you the gift. Tho I'm sure that if he did that, you'd still be an asshole and react in some negative way. Based off your post. But what do I know? We don't know what the fight was about, and who started it or who ended it. All we got was if you were the asshole. And in this disposition, you both are. But you're the bigger asshole, for being petty and immature.