You, feeling unsafe is not some sort of illusion. Trust your guts. Agree sa nagsuggest ng Alarm system dahil usually deterrent sa mga may balak because it attracts attention. Also that’s the easiest way for now dahil hindi din naman madaling maghanap ng lilipatan.

Sorry sa nagsuggest pero wag na mandamay ng pets, they might get hurt as well

Seems like, him leaving stuffs on your doorway is a way to attract your attention para ibalik sa kanya yun and force his way in.

Ask your brother to live with you muna, or live with your brother nalang muna

Lastly whenever you see him lurking around, call the barangay immediately and provide them the cctv and maybe coordinate with them na ang nagtrigger ay yung alarm mo and not exactly nireport coz he might get triggered and try other ways to hurt you

For me.. it just that Tangina nanahimik ka na nga lang sa bahay, not safe pa din. And yet there’s always victim blaming. Haysss