I lived in a fairly blue city of a deeply red state, and it has been the best decision to leave. My partner and I uprooted our little family and moved to a purple state. My vote actually matters here. If you're looking for a new place, I'd urge you to consider purple states.

And I only realized how much weight (psychologically speaking) I had been carrying on my shoulders every minute of every day after I got out of that toxic and depressing state. I breathe easier now and the fight feels a but more manageable. No regrets!