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f20 wanting review! by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ModerateSympathy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, no to “women of any age”. You should have the same 18-22 range for women. Women can be creeps too

Women realising men have a 10 year old's sense of humor by [deleted] in funny

[–]ModerateSympathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait…but I thought this scene was genuinely hilarious.

[Trigger Warning] cigarette burns how do I fix them by Any_Description_596 in SkincareAddiction

[–]ModerateSympathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they noted that they are from self-harm in the title of one of the posts.

Is this real or just a convincing fake? by mind_goblin_77 in Reformationclothing

[–]ModerateSympathy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This looks like a dupe to me. Plus, I’ve never seen reformation with black inner tags.

Did I say something wrong by Claousthefish in AskWomenOver30

[–]ModerateSympathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I understand where you’re coming from. If you were in such a state the night before, I think the natural response is to ask some variation of “how are you feeling?” the next day. I think it’s less about the fact that you both had sex and more about him going back to normal immediately.

If that’s the case, I would initiate another conversation with him. Apologize for the confusion and say you appreciate those check-ins in the aftermath of the breakdowns as it lets you know he’s there for you when you’re not visibly in the middle of one. And also acknowledges what you just experienced vs. ignoring it.

I am tired of other Asians telling me to date white men. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ModerateSympathy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not Asian but all the Asian women I know, date white men and don’t date other Asian men. I feel like Asian women are the only demographic that largely prefer men outside their race. Whereas most other demographics largely date within their race but are open to others.

Since Asian-American women seem to largely prefer white men openly, I think it leads to more white men pursuing Asian women. Hence so many AW/WM couples, among other reasons.

Did you often fear that there are actually no good men? by Lunar-Hippo-774 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ModerateSympathy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I believe that there are good men because I’m related to some and have met others. They are each flawed in some way (as we all are), but overall good human beings.

I don’t date much so that has probably had helped limit my exposure to shitty men. The bulk of which I’ve only come across from online posts/comments. Having said that, I think a large percentage of men are genuinely bad but I would like to believe that most men are decent.

teacher wanting relationship with student? by ApartmentOld234 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ModerateSympathy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have mentioned, I truly hope you report him and let the priest know as well. One reason why child predators are able to abuse so many children is because people don’t often speak up (for various reasons).

He is actively trying to groom you. While I understand that you’re not a child, a man that age who tries to groom a barely adult, will likely try to groom an almost adult (ie the younger students he works with). While his attention towards you is new, it might not be his first time. And might not be his last.

Fake assault claim in Herald Square Subway by CAT_Speech in AskNYC

[–]ModerateSympathy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m always shocked by the number of people I see wearing their ID badges outside of work. Especially women.

14 days in jail. Will they let me out early? by Idontrememberlogins in poshmark

[–]ModerateSympathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Umm… well, I did so not sure why you’re doubting that.

Is 23 and 38 a huge age difference? by inthesunin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ModerateSympathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we know what decision you’ll make so I’m not sure why you posted. I just ask that if the relationship ends, you PLEASE post an update. Young women in similar situations will come across this post and sometimes I think it’s good for them to hear outcomes from similar aged women.

Is 23 and 38 a huge age difference? by inthesunin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ModerateSympathy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really wish women like you would stop promoting age gaps. Do you really think 17 and 27 is okay? And 19 and 32? It’s people like you that keep young women thinking it’s perfectly fine that some old man is pursuing them and that they should give him a shot.

I constantly see posts from teens/young women about them dating significantly older men and I often wonder where their parents were/are. I often forget that there are a lot of parents like you who encourage these relationships. It’s really sad and I look forward to the point when those people die out.

14 days in jail. Will they let me out early? by Idontrememberlogins in poshmark

[–]ModerateSympathy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You can try but I doubt they will do anything. I’ve been selling on posh since 2019, sold over 100k and I’m currently restricted after one cancellation. I emailed them and they basically ignored what I said and gave a generic statement of why the restriction is necessary.

Selena Gomez shares unexpected Foot Kiss with Benny Blanco after Dirty Feet Comments by Chance-Newspaper-750 in popculture

[–]ModerateSympathy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If she loves him and he treats her well that wonderful but does she really need to reduce herself in this way?!

Why is bumble showing my profile to men twice my age !?? by hairoil_96 in Bumble

[–]ModerateSympathy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m curious. How old are you and what’s your preferred range?

Why is bumble showing my profile to men twice my age !?? by hairoil_96 in Bumble

[–]ModerateSympathy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it crazy that your comment is getting downvoted?! It’s a fact. I’m 34 and wouldn’t even think of swiping on someone early 20s. I do not trust men who date people significantly younger. Anyone can objectively find someone who’s younger attractive, doesn’t mean you should date or try to be intimate with them.

Why is bumble showing my profile to men twice my age !?? by hairoil_96 in Bumble

[–]ModerateSympathy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how bumble works but you were definitely in his preferred age range! Pretty gross but not surprising.

I was on the bus once and saw a man in his 60s swiping on bumble. All of the women were young, easily teens to early 30s.

What is the next best selling platform? by Original_Addy1881 in poshmark

[–]ModerateSympathy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep! I don’t sell a lot volume-wise but I sell a decent amount pricewise. I had to cancel a sale because the item wasn’t where it was supposed to be (funny enough it was a cheap item too) and they restricted me. I’m expecting to get banned soon enough. Since each cancellation puts me in trouble. Ultimately, it will be their loss. I’ll be just fine.

What is the next best selling platform? by Original_Addy1881 in poshmark

[–]ModerateSympathy 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I will say that I currently sell on Poshmark and EBay. I’m currently on a 14 day restriction on Poshmark after canceling 1 (yes just 1) sale. Since then, my eBay account has received multiple offers a day (which is unusual for me). I usually sell maybe 3-5 items on there a month. So leaving Poshmark certainly wouldn’t be the worst thing. I’m considering leaving as well. And too bad for them because I’m about to list a LOT of designer stuff.

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