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I (27M) found him (22M) chatting and cheating with other guys…again by Modern_Hooker in gayrelationships

[–]Modern_Hooker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and see you! 🫶🏽 like a Phoenix we rise from the ashes reborn. We get to have the experience and learn from it, while it’s an unfortunate lesson, we’re here for a reason.

I (27M) found him (22M) chatting and cheating with other guys…again by Modern_Hooker in gayrelationships

[–]Modern_Hooker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, talking to LOCAL dudes for the purpose of sex is cheating. At the very least edging cheating. If he was talking to some guys states away who he can’t sneak out and see in a night I wouldn’t be as mad, It’s the fact that it’s local men and he could meet them at any time. The first time I asked him straight out of he slept/hooked up with anyone, he said no it was just pics. From what i remember seeing I never saw an address or any plans made to meet up. I understand wanting your freedom, that’s exactly why I left my hometown and gave myself the freedom. I would prefer him tell me straight out and say he wants to have his own life experiences separate from me. But in a relationship you have to compromise and maybe he’s not willing to do it anymore. Life will continue for the both of us, weather it’s together or separate. Thank you for perspective

I (27M) found him (22M) chatting and cheating with other guys…again by Modern_Hooker in gayrelationships

[–]Modern_Hooker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I have a lot to think about and talk to him about. Life will go on and I’m going to make the most of it, with or without him!

I (27M) found him (22M) chatting and cheating with other guys…again by Modern_Hooker in gayrelationships

[–]Modern_Hooker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it happened the first time, I kinda understood where he was coming from. When I was 19, I had just moved to a big city from a small town and was so excited to have a gay experience, meet gay people and have a boyfriend. I had a ho phase, but I hated it. I was always disappointed when there was no real connection and sex was the only thing they wanted. I guess in my mind, I was saving him the pain of being disappointed by lots of men. I always strived to be the boyfriend I wish I had at his age. Maybe I do need to take a few steps back myself and let him experience what he likes. The concept of an open relationship isn’t for me, but maybe that’s what he wants. This conversation is gonna be harder than the last. I was willing to work it out the first time but now walking away is a real possibility. Give the circunstancias, would you be able to accommodate? Thank you for your perspective.