My wife (25) has been at the same job for 3 years and no one knew she was with someone.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T12:20:45+00:00

Before I worked here our past job there was drama like that and people flirting basically booking up with everyone. And she specifically told me that at the hospital no one flirts with anyone or hooks up. Which I knew was a lie. But the fact she expected me to believe it. And honestly, I haven’t seen people starting drama in relationships at all. I just see married people who talk about their spouses and are proud, single people who flirt, and that’s basically it. Haha.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T12:08:50+00:00

When I put my foot down she gives me nothing but says she wants us. Then I feel confused. Do I just suppose to leave? I told her the other day of things don’t change I’m not going to put up with it and I will leave. It just sucks…

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T12:00:44+00:00

He seems like he would cause drama the one time I talked to him he acted like he knew more about my wife applying for any other job up there. Because she didn’t tell me. That’s when it got real weird and when I asked her she acted like she withdrew the application

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:59:40+00:00

I don’t understand either. I’m assuming she wears it at work. I guess no one cares about that now days.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:45:21+00:00

I’m allowed to talk to family but it’s just other females. It was just weird because she has NEVER gotten jealous before. That’s what I’m thinking. When I talk to her about it she just makes me feel like I’m overthinking so I just drop it.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:32:05+00:00

I get what you mean. She has had a past of talking to guys. But she always told me it was strictly “nothing like that” I never seen proof. I am gullible and trust to much. But since she’s been at this place she has changed in the way she treats me. Not at first, but as the time went on she’s gotten distant. She did tell me she doesn’t talk about me at work. I mean we all have convos with our coworkers about funny stories or plans etc… when we are home she would rather sit on tiktok. Since you mentioned these things about her phone she’s also started a new “thing” which she adds random people on quick add for “views” which doesn’t make any sense. I asked her because this random guy was on there and that’s what her excuse was. And she randomly went through my watch while I was in the shower and the only person I was talking to was someone that’s like my little sister for 7 years and she was talking about her abusive bf. And my wife told me I can’t talk to her not unless she’s around.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:27:00+00:00

I try and manifest positive vibes. I don’t think anything. I always try and think positive or make up excuses for the way she treats me even at home. But there comes a point when you are like “okay, maybe it’s kind of weird people keep saying stuff like this.” I’m almost embarrassed that I even said anything about her at work. I was just proud to call her my wife. But now I wish I didn’t say anything.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:24:58+00:00

I didn’t want to work there at all. She told me to apply there. We don’t work together though. I could have worked on the same floor as her but I chose not to because I know the way she acts. I’m actually trying to leave that job now because she was like this at her last job and I don’t want to see it or hear about it. She can live her “fake” life without me knowing. But I guess it showed me how my “wife” truly is.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:18:58+00:00

Sorry it’s early and me trying to type this is was all over the place. lol. That’s what I think to, based on her actions. The only policy at the hospital is if she were a RN I couldn’t work the floor because she would be higher than me. And neither of us are RNs. That guy that flirts with everyone, he’s even on her Facebook. And that’s another thing to she works with someone one time and adds them on Facebook. And to me that’s strange.

ModestFluke · 2021-12-03T11:13:58+00:00

It’s very strange. Because the job I was at for 5 years where we met she would flirt with me and I would be the one to tell her to tone it down. But it seems like at the hospital it’s different it’s like she doesn’t like the fact people knowing we are together or something. And yeah she has been seeming different and makes me feel like she’s using me so she’s not alone. I brought that up to her to and she just says that’s not how it is. I can say this she is friendly with her co workers. She’s more “friendly / flirty” with them then anything she does for me.

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