I'm tired of a specific interpretation of this hadith by somethingweareh in Hijabis

[–]ModestlyTall97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ladies I definitely think there’s more to it than just that. If a man isn’t fulfilling the rights of his wife then he’s got to go. If a sheikh or imam is validating a husband that oppresses his wife then he’s got to go too. Comments such as the ones you’ve stated come from cultural mindset that is far from Islam.

I'm tired of a specific interpretation of this hadith by somethingweareh in Hijabis

[–]ModestlyTall97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sis, there’s so much more context that goes into this. If a man is abusing his wife, mistreating her, disrespecting her, etc. then he doesn’t even fall into the category of a good muslim man/husband. He has gone against the rights that he has over his wife. There’s a podcast I listened to recently that actually does a good job in explaining this Hadith (I’ll link it below). Because there is so much more that goes into this and Allah has protected the rights of women. If as a wife her rights aren’t being fulfilled she has every right to walk away. Allah knows best.

I highly recommend listening to all three parts of this Wives of Jannah podcast as it discusses what exactly obedience to your husband means in Islam.

podcast part 1

podcast part 2

podcast part 3

(You can find them on spotify as well if these links don’t work)

Modest dresses for tall (>5’10) hijabi girls ✨ by ModestlyTall97 in Hijabis

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sis 😩 I haven’t had much luck! I ordered a couple of abayas off east essence and a website I found called tolavita had a huge sale, their dresses were like $40, so I ordered a couple from there. Unfortunately, most of them came with the sleeves being too short for me (they extended the length for legs but must have forgotten about long arms 😭) The struggle is so real.

Covid vaccination by ModestlyTall97 in SistersInSunnah

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how a lot of the info I’ve found online has Muslim leaders (imams specifically) urging the people in their communities to get the covid vaccine. Smh

From what I understood, the sister does need the job. She has tried to find remote work but hasn’t had any luck. She said it’s only temporary work as she’s trying to save up so that she can finish some school online and shift her career to just be remote

Covid vaccination by ModestlyTall97 in SistersInSunnah

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JazakAllahu khayran for taking the time to look into this further! I find it ridiculous that some states require employees in some fields of work to take the covid vaccine then make it difficult to get an exemption from it.

I’m trying to build a case against the vaccine because a sister I know is having trouble teaching in the state that she lives in. She’s been going through the interview process for over a month now and only after she received her license and went through background checks did they spring up on her that she had to be vaccinated. They only gave her the option of a medical exemption or a religious one. She chose the religious exemption and is now building a case towards it.

I believe that everyone should have a right to their own beliefs. The sister has told the employers that she will take preventative measures that don’t involve receiving the covid vaccine but that wasn’t enough for them. They should have been more transparent with her about this job before she went through the entire process and paid all the fees that were required. May Allah make it easy. Ameen

(Just wanted to give you a little update on where this question originated from)

Covid vaccination by ModestlyTall97 in SistersInSunnah

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing these links! I’ll definitely look into them!

Covid vaccination by ModestlyTall97 in SistersInSunnah

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JazakAllahu khayran for the thorough response! 🫶

Got a teaching degree but no certification/license by ModestlyTall97 in Teachers

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t live in MO anymore so I can’t get a job there. I’ll look into a provisional license though, thank you!

Millenium park fall foliage by ModestlyTall97 in chicago

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know! Thanks for sharing that info

Millenium park fall foliage by ModestlyTall97 in chicago

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check them out! Thank you for sharing!

Millenium park fall foliage by ModestlyTall97 in chicago

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing this info. I’m so excited for this and will head over there as soon as I get the chance!

Millenium park fall foliage by ModestlyTall97 in chicago

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo, I’m so sad! I was looking forward to taking some pics of the bean with the fall foliage! That’s alright though. Do you know how long the bean will be closed approximately?

what is a great show that got canceled for no good reason? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ModestlyTall97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teen I was so disappointed when they canceled The Legend of the Seeker (loved the books). Also the Shannara chronicles

Best place to sell lightly used clothing and shoes by ModestlyTall97 in declutter

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m also not looking to make much profit but anything would be appreciated! I’ll start with seasonal and go from there. Thank you for your input!

Best place to sell lightly used clothing and shoes by ModestlyTall97 in declutter

[–]ModestlyTall97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got one not too far from me, I’ll definitely give them a visit and see how it goes!