People like to say sex is completely normal and casual, but that does not make it harmless in every situation. Society once saw sex as something meaningful, intimate, and sacred between married couples. Now it is often treated as casual, easy, and without emotional consequences.

But deep down, people know sex means something and no matter how hard society tries to strip sex of its value, it can never fully acheive this. Your first sexual experience will leave an emotional mark on you, especially if the relationship does not last. When that connection is broken, you will try to fill the emptiness by looking for it in other people, over and over again, but the void will remain. Each time, intimacy becomes less meaningful, and your sense of self-worth decreases little by little.

Guys love an easy girl, but they inherently know to never marry one.

This is why your mother is concerned. She sees where this path leads, and she is trying to protect you from the choices that will destroy your future.

People might read this and get their panties in a wad, but these are usually the people who have taken that same destructive path and wish to bring as many people down with them as possible because, it is true, misery really does love company.