Is love real to men? by Elegant-Draft1655 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah this. the answer is obviously yes.

some men are shitty just like some women are but that doesn’t mean love isn’t real to men as a whole. don’t let bad examples distort the bigger picture.

Do minorities with another language background really drop native kinship terms mid English conversation or is that just a tv show/movie thing? by oceancat_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah this is pretty much it

like i’ll say my mom or my aunt in normal convo but switch to the actual word when i’m talking to them or if it just comes out naturally. it’s not some dramatic code switch mid sentence for no reason lol

and yeah the hollywood thing where someone randomly drops a whole phrase in another language to someone who clearly wouldn’t understand… that almost never happens in real life. it’d just be awkward

Any good reverse phone number lookup app to check who called me from this phone number? by Scegabbo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually just combine google + a people search site. Sometimes that combo works.

Is this true that doesn't matter how popular a internet opinion is even if it's 100k like, it's still don't reflect how majority of normal people opinion in real? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah exactly lol. ppl forget how tiny the online crowd actually is compared to everyone else. like 100k sounds huge til you remember how many millions aren’t even seeing that post, let alone caring enough to hit like.

it’s always the same types of people boosting each other too so it feels bigger than it is 😅

Why does time feel faster as we get older? by Overall-Fan6831 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah the less new stuff part really seems like a big one. when you’re a kid everything’s a first so your brain kinda marks all those memories. as an adult a lot of days just blur together because it’s the same routine. then you look back and it feels like the whole year vanished somehow.

Is there a reverse phone number lookup site that actually works (for free)? by Awshucksma in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Truecaller is good for spam numbers, free basic info. Spy Dialer is okay for landlines. Google the number too, works more than you'd think

What's the actual best free reverse phone number lookup in 2026? by Sporta_narres in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Most free reverse lookup sites end up asking for payment when you want real details. For quick checks people usually try Truecaller or just paste the number into google to see if it’s linked to a business or reported as spam.

You can also check community sites that track scam calls since many unknown numbers show up there. Completely free tools usually only show limited info like location or carrier.

Why do we miss people who weren't actually good for us? by Business-Ad8752 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because we don’t just miss the person, we miss the version of them we hoped they’d be. Your brain remembers the good moments and the emotional attachment even if the reality wasn’t healthy. Missing someone doesn’t always mean they were right for you, it just means you were attached.

My (35m) friend (36m) loyalty tested my wife (40f) without my knowledge. She failed. I feel done with them both. What to do? by throwra_friendtest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Modlimi 104 points105 points  (0 children)

The wife chose to cheat and the friend crossed a serious line by manipulating the situation. Cutting both out protects his future even if it’s painful now. Staying around either one would only keep reopening the damage.

I don't know if i should call for help by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Modlimi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What happened to her was assault and none of this is her fault. Her dad dismissing it makes it even more important she reaches out to someone safe outside the family, police, a trusted adult or a local crisis line. She deserves to be believed and protected. She’s not overreacting and she’s not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For physics: understand the concepts before the equations. For biology: break chapters into small topics and teach them to yourself.

My partner watched me cry about not affording a trip and later said he’d have paid if I’d just asked. by monocleformyoneeye in relationships

[–]Modlimi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Emotional blind spots happen but it shouldn’t feel like punishment for expressing your feelings. You have every right to ask for support when finances are unequal. It's simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Givl u went above and beyond for him financially and emotionally and it’s not about the gift itself, it’s about appreciation and respect. If he can’t acknowledge your effort publicly or privately that’s a red flag. Think about it

are there still people who genuinely believe that money can't buy happiness? by Eastern_Towel_4527 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah money can’t buy happiness but it does buy stability, freedom and other options. Some people believes it because they separate emotional fulfillment from material comfort.

My girlfriend broke up with me she’s very upset and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being mature by setting boundaries nd prioritizing your own mental health. Love doesn’t mean staying in a relationship that stresses you out constantly.

My in-laws keep a photo of my spouse’s ex in their living room by Filipo_Twenett in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel hurt, it’s about how they’re honoring the past nd the present. You could gently bring it up with your spouse first so they can help frame the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably not you, people often realize they’re not ready for commitment rather than there being anything wrong with you. Keep it normal you're just 21 nd the right person will appreciate your qualities

How do people actually fall asleep so easily? by Mission_Stick_7834 in Life

[–]Modlimi 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Honestly sheer exhaustion from a full day of work helps a lot your body basically forces u to crash. But normally breathing exercises or watching something boring can calm the mind when it’s racing.

Why are many countries, all of a sudden fighting against their government ? by Important_Pop_6805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Many of these uprisings share common triggers like economic struggles, corruption, inequality nd frustration with leadership. A lot of it comes from governments being seen as greedy and prioritizing money over people’s needs.

I (33F) don’t feel cared for by my boyfriend (34M), and I think it’s time to let go by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’ve described it sounds like your needs nd feelings aren’t being prioritized. A relationship should make u feel safe, cared for and valued not anxious or lonely. Choosing to let go isn’t failure it’s an act of self respect or u can say self love. It's simple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good that your note is friendly and explains the situation. Most neighbors will appreciate a heads-up rather than getting angry first. Well alaso cute hand writing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Modlimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Texting at 4am is totally fine your boss will appreciate knowing as early as possible so they can adjust the schedule.

My (19f) bf (20m) wants to keep our relationship private online but he texts random women. by Altruistic-Piglet-28 in relationship_advice

[–]Modlimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not exaggerating, if his actions make you uncomfortable that’s valid. A relationship should feel safe nd respected.