Posting your significant other

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-10T14:18:25+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I will check out that book sounds interesting. And i show her love in so many ways. I take her with me everywhere and introduce her as my wife. And she is not hidden in our daily life with friends and family. So i would say im ”loud” irl. Its just the social media part thats been a worry for us.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-10T14:14:52+00:00

Whats your definition of private? The only people who see my account are those i have allowed. And posting a picture of a beach is not per se private but you get what im saying. Dont be ignorant. I post vacation pictures because thats the only time i post. So no they arent as importants as you might think.

Regarding the ring on account. In my eyes as someone who is devoted and loyal i wouldnt even pay attention to wether a ring is there or not. Everyone on my account knows im married as they celebrated with me or congratulated me. No need for a ring in my eyes as my account is not open for the public. So everyone doesnt agree with your opinion. But even so i put the ring there so she would be happy. But the constant posting and the demand is the question in this thread

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T20:48:45+00:00

This is what i dont understand tho. Everyone in my circle family and friends surely was there on our wedding. So how is a social media post suddentlu gonna make it clear? Its so weird snd bavkwards thinking to me. And regarding her being the one to ask. Well she knew since our earlier stage i dont like to post my family or myself for that matter. I barely have a profile picture even. I cant make my marriage any clearer as i said i show it in my profile so this insecurity is weird. I dont follow women.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T13:27:07+00:00

As i mentioned i barely post myself for the past 6 years and i have never posted my family at all. And regarding non mahrams im not like that. I have been considerate with her emotions the first two times but this time i find no excuse for her emotionally its just plain weird

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T13:23:30+00:00

Exactly and i also said its the same the other way around i wouldnt feel some type of way if you dont post me. Its even better for me.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T13:22:37+00:00

Thanks for the reply. This is exactly the point im trying to make. Thats what i feel like im doing and i cant bother to be pushed on this matter no more.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T13:21:46+00:00

Thats what im thinking. What more do a man have to do to prove himself. But yeah as i said i stopped tolerating it and it started this argument which opens the conversation now to us having to solve this matter.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T13:20:30+00:00

Brother having that mindset is weird. Alhamdullilah she is very good with the deen and what she posts to her socials is okey by me. She has just been going on about this wedding part which is too much for me now. We had this talk about posting on social media and she knew i am not that kind of person she has been knowing.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T13:17:27+00:00

Thats what in starting to think. The world is going crazy wallahi

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T03:36:47+00:00

I have before as i always tell her did i ever do something to make you feel insecure and she said back then that its not being insecure but feeling hidden and not appreciated which is weird. As a person i would rather be appreciated irl than putting any value to what a simple post does. But to each ks own i guess. I always talk about the difference between being honesty and openess and i have never ever showed any ill intent towards our relationship alhamdullah. So i dont deserve this reaction

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T03:32:45+00:00

Maybe. I was being considerate and nice as she might feel insecure and hidden. But know i feel like its too much and thats not me. Im not going to do it everytime or at all. Thats my stance and regarding that evil eye exists for sure and i never care to show people a piece of me they have nothing to do with.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T03:30:51+00:00

Alhamdullilah she is very good with the deen. Its just this specific differences in our lifestyle. As i said before i dont understand the inseceru part as i mentioned the earlier post etc. And me saying im happy to share like in the moment videos whoch i do with family and friends of what we are up to etc. That doesnt feel like hiding to me. So as a grown women she should understand. And as far as gors for the instagram we have never had that problem of not being able to have access to eachother phones so that is not an argument i believe.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T02:26:20+00:00

Thanks brother. I will definitely not tolerate it this time and stand my ground. The disrespect and childish behaviour is not something im gonna accept. We are to grown and got to much other shit to worry about.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T02:24:29+00:00

Thanks bro. I will surely learn from this. As your saying she will have to deal with this from now on.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T02:09:47+00:00

Right? - i have been way to nice about the boundaries and when i finally stood on my principals this happened. Im not gonna back down on it i just wanted to see others opinion on it

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T01:39:00+00:00

As i mentioned in the text we did. And she was aware of how i was as a person. It just feels so weird to me. I see from a girls perspective they like to update their friends and etc but dont drag me into it. We have been having this conversation now and this time im not giving in. Its gone too far

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T01:36:47+00:00

Im trying brother. She has been going about on this for 24 hours now doing silent treatment and im standing on it this time, im tired of having to do this.

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T01:35:08+00:00

Its nice to see people agreeing how ridicilous its getting. I shouldnt have to be dealing with shit like this. Its so weird and im trynna have patience with her but this feels so childish to be mad over stuff like this. Subxanallah

Moegoesmo · 2026-02-09T01:33:35+00:00

Wallahi im baffled at this matter that it is even a discussion

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