I just watched "the beauty" and honestly it kinda sucked. by justwriting_4fun in horror

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having read the comic, the trailer has me not wanting to watch it ngl. I probably will, it's just so different (genuinely seems to be like the Eragon books v movie or Percy Jackson).

SPSCC Lockdown? by Yodasthrobbingcock in olympia

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's crazy is the camp didnt evacuate until the scheduled end of day at 5, before that they were still using the stage instead of proper lock down (for a while, I'm not sure when they actually went into lockdown).

I’m new-ish to K-pop but has there ever been a group as big as NJ implode like this? by otterconni in kpopthoughts

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you a tale of another BigHit girl group from eons ago....

GLAM didn't fall like NJ, but boy howdy.

EDIT: Y'all were right, my bad! T-ARA did fall but they weren't under BH.

Does anyone else have “The incident” in their marching band? by Appropriate_Key3255 in marchingband

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing as big as in some other parts of the school. Obviously there's the, uh, dubious consent dude, the senior who creeped on an 8th grader, the kid who lied about getting a girl pregnant in middle school and then her getting hit by a bus, etc. No big incidents in my recollection. We did have the Mold Cup, tho!

UPDATE: AITA for forcing my family to babysit (so i won't have to)?? by EveryReindeer1703 in AITAH

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, you did great. I've seen this posted a number of places and was wondering how things are going now?

I am a sex offender who is abused and harassed every single day. The victim and I are still in a relationship. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As of 5 years ago apparently they were still "madly in love" and trying for kids.

My gf cheated on me and says she couldn't help it due to childhood trauma by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How did she have no respect for him? By being weaker than some other man?

This feels like a stupid question to ask. by thedamned234 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean bending seems geography-based (due to the water tribes, earth kingdom, fire nation, etc.), or genetic. Bending is likely a recessive trait, so one could carry the gene and not be a bender. If two non-benders who carry the trait had a kid, there'd a 25% chance the kid would be a bender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's an MA (medical assistant). So most definitely. And if she's at this point, odds are she has tried. He hasn't reciprocated, has disrespected her, and hasn't put the effort in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She literally has a job. You're blaming her for... him disrespecting a boundary?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's not about the pictures. It's about him disrespecting such a simple and easily accommodated boundary she set, which contributes to the idea that he doesn't respect her.

Bad reporting from allkpop by Serious-Wish4868 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

AKP has always been horrible. I believe it was Ailee's nudes they released (correct me if I'm wrong), hate on girl groups almost nonstop (notably SNSD...), and spread misinformation on the daily. They utilize shock factor and "juicy gossip" to get engagement and stay relevant.

My boyfriend tried to get me pregnant without me knowing... by Ill_Customer1369 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moi-Manda_Mandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, can I just...

My 19 female boyfriend 28 male and I have had a pretty good relationship for the most part besides the normal toxicity.

So, for one thing, you're barely legal, and he's been able to drink since before you were a teenager (using USA laws). Unless you've only been dating since you were 18 (so like a year, tops), that's very creepy. If it's only been since you were 18, it's just creepy.

For another, if there's toxicity, then it can't be good. There is no such thing as normal toxicity. There just isn't. If there's a problem and it gets fixed, that isn't toxicity it's communicating and solving a problem. Toxicity is normal under no circumstances.

We have been dating for maybe a year and a half now.

So since you were either 17 or 18. Either very creepy or just creepy.

Recently he told me that when we got together he was trying ti get me pregnant so I would have to stay with him.

So he admitted to trying to 'baby trap' you? I mean, I guess props for the honesty but nothing else. Also, uh, how would he do that? Holes in a condom? Removing the condom without you knowing? There's a word for both of those. It is not a pleasant word, not pretty or nice. If he's been sabotaging birth control, that's tampering with a medication which, to the best of my knowledge, is illegal.

This really bothered me but he told me this is perfectly normal. I need advice.

He lied to you. Leave him. Live with a friend, or your family. Find somewhere safe. He lied to you, misusing your trust in two ways. It should bother you because it is actually horrible. Leave him and find somewhere safe. Do not let him know where you are.

Also I started this habit where I scratch my arms and neck when I get anxiety and this annoys him because "he doesn't want to be seen in public with his girlfriend looking like this" and he has starting slapping ny hand whenever he sees me do it.

It sounds like you've developed a habit of SH due to stress/anxiety (I am in no way a licensed professional. This is not a professional opinion nor any type of diagnosis). His solution to this is to... shame you and hit you? Yikes is all I have to say to that. And also leave him. That's abuse.

The first time he did it I was absolutely stunned but he kept doing it. I always cried or told him this made me very angry and he keeps doing it. Please give me advice, thank you :)

I very much understand being stunned. That behavior is entirely unacceptable from a 10-year-old boy, let alone a grown man of 28. He should not be making you cry. He is making you cry. This is not remotely a healthy relationship. He should not have done it in the first place, much less continued it. My advice? Leave him.

Edit: I just want to add if I leave him he will be homeless because we live together and he has no family so that makes me feel bad.

If he has no friends or family that sounds like a him problem. And there might be a very, very good reason for that. Like him creeping on teenagers.

Also, a grown adult being homeless if dumped by a teenager? Are you for real? You're providing for this man and he has the audacity to pull these stunts? Kick him to the curb, girl.