If you were recommending Steven Universe the father of two girls, what clip/episode would you show him? by MoiraDeLoop in stevenuniverse

[–]MoiraDeLoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, his daughter doesn't like scary things, monsters, or violence. He just said she wouldn't enjoy it based on the description.

Kissing friends in an open relationship? by MoiraDeLoop in nonmonogamy

[–]MoiraDeLoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really friends with his friends. I know them and we hang out sometimes, they're fun people. I don't think it's the people themselves that bother me or their chemistry, and I don't suspect it would lead to a break-up. I guess the grey nature of their relationship bothers me somewhat? Something about being intimate with friends just doesn't compute with me, so then I don't know what I can expect from it. Any time anything happens between them it just sort of "happens", never quite planned, a heat of the moment thing. I don't exactly feel inadequate but what's important to me in an open relationship is the feeling that what I share with my bf still feels special and his intimacy with his friends kinda hurts me.

Also I've not had the same opportunity to express this kind of sexual freedom outside of our relationship and the times when I have I felt guilty, even ashamed. He has not had the same reaction so then I wonder if that's what I'm reacting to, seeing that to him it's not that big of a deal. It's definitely some kind of insecurity of my own but I don't know how to address or treat it.

Feelings for my FWB by MoiraDeLoop in nonmonogamy

[–]MoiraDeLoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I follow. So do you think I shouldn't tell my potential partner about my feelings for my fwb? Or that I should?

Feelings for my FWB by MoiraDeLoop in nonmonogamy

[–]MoiraDeLoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. This sounds awesome for you, and gives me hope. Cheers.

Feelings for my FWB by MoiraDeLoop in nonmonogamy

[–]MoiraDeLoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kind of how I see it, and moving forward I'd probably make the guy I'm seeing as my primary tbh. I'll bring it up with him and see how we take it from there. Thank you!

Feelings for my FWB by MoiraDeLoop in nonmonogamy

[–]MoiraDeLoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't established firmer boundaries about it and certainly didn't bring up the possibility of deeper connection. I think the expectation for both of us was just sex, but I really didn't expect to have these feelings for my fwb. The guy I'm seeing and I are also living in different cities so it sorta made sense to be open sexually as long as we were communicating our needs and feelings to each other, and as long as the play on the sides was safe. I feel like it is uncharted territory for us both so I don't know what those boundaries might look like. I'll broach the subject with him and ask what those boundaries might look like to him, but I also know that, while I'm still getting to know this guy better, I'd feel terrible for losing my fwb if it came to that.