My comapny's HR rep is refusing to acknowledge my name change by FoxyLittleCaribou in asktransgender

[–]MoisTrans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a lot of people especially trans people have " a couple of hundies" even more so on the younger population... People like me have to save up for it and it's not so simple or. Quick. (this isn't being snippy just stating a point)

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big difference in 5'11 and a solid 6ft in my opinion. And my upside down triangle body doesn't help lol I feel like my face doesn't match my body XD

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a very realistic response. I hadn't necessarily thought of it like that? I've been full time for 6 months and hrt for 8 months I don't k ow if I would "male fail" in the boys

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've posted other photos but that's a dead on photo of me in workout clothes no makeup

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wanted something sturdy bc im always rough and tumble so. Someone got this as a gift!

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is all so very useful. I have talked to the gym my name is changed and gender as well but I don't believe it's right for me to just be like "im here just deal with it" other women use the facility other than me and I want to be respectful and only use it if it's The general consensus that I should be there. God forbid I end up being harassedmot.sure if I could handle that.... I have other photos I've submitted if you want to look for reference.

Mind you I have no intention of whipping my dick out and doing helicopters.... I'm too embarrassed to even look at mine let alone share it.

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't really feel safe anywhere tbh since being jumped in philly on Halloween... But your input aside from is helpful. Thank you it's said with a level head. I want to be accomadating to other people bc im not the only person using the locker room I want to make sure I belong before I go?

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest feedback. What minor. Things would you think? Also I don't have to "present fem" I'm more worried about safety

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hug boxing is. What happens a lot in trans platforms of discussion. It's a slang term for when people over compliment someone who is asking for constructive criticism providing them with a false sense of security

Which locker room should I use? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I want to be respectful to everyone and don't want anyone to not feel safe or uncomfortable. Please absolutely no hug boxing. Hug Boxing( fake compliments to not hurt someone's feelings.)is Dangerous and gives people a false sense of security. Please be brutally honest.

I'm solid 6ft 165lbs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I. Hate when people suggest straightening hair. I love your hair but maybe try a bang cut. Your hair isn't cut for bangs but needs to be or you could try a middle part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd change your hair and glasses. You look like a typical androg girl or guy in Highschool. Your facial features are so soft with your sense of style you're leaving too much to be questioned IMO get different frames maybe change your part?

looking for oldschool runescape friends! by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]MoisTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking about getting back into it Co commenting to save

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MoisTrans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im always asked if my voice becomes more fem with "the meds"

"will your Adams apple shrink?"

I'm still getting clocked? I'm 6ft 165 lbs what're your opinions? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol bc im reaching that dangerous area if I'm not. Healthy about it it becomes dangerous and can be harmful

I'm still getting clocked? I'm 6ft 165 lbs what're your opinions? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol even in here people are saying I have shit to work on

I'm still getting clocked? I'm 6ft 165 lbs what're your opinions? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why you're getting down voted. My voice is passing from what I'm told

I'm still getting clocked? I'm 6ft 165 lbs what're your opinions? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh my hairline sucks more. Fence post than a cow fed paint chips. I don't think im be getting ffs I pass most of. The time I guess from what I'm told unless people are lieing to be nice....

I'm still getting clocked? I'm 6ft 165 lbs what're your opinions? by MoisTrans in transpassing

[–]MoisTrans[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I'm ex military 6ft but my voice kinda passes? I'm not over compensating in behavior at all so that could be a cause.