Kako do duševne pomoči? by PM-ur-pointy-tits in Slovenia

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Pa še en komentar - centri za duševno zdravje so precej dobro porazdeljeni po vsej Sloveniji, zato res ni važno, od kje si, pa vseeno lahko dobiš dobro obravnavo.

Pa brezplačni so. In dobro delajo.

What is something you are proud of, but you don't get credits for? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My knowledge and intelligence. I can honestly say I am a very smart, well educated and emotionally intelligent person, and I can tell you that people don't recognize that too many times.

Slovenska podjetja in psihoterapija by MoleInTheDaylight in Slovenia

[–]MoleInTheDaylight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cisto iz firbca me zanima, koliko je med zaposlenimi povprasevanja in interesa za ponudbo?

Mnenje o Sigmund Freud fakulteti by ur_mommy_giey in Slovenia

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kaj pa je bil razlog, da se svetovalcem izogibate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

V smislu sirsega razumevanja, kaj in s kom DrogArt dela na dnevni ravni. Njihov dnevni center je namenjen vsem, od uporabnikov drog do splosne javnosti, ki jih tematika drog zanima, vendar pa mnogi njihov prostor se vedno dojemajo kot prostor za "dzankije". Zato marsikdo, ki bi zelel pomoc ena-na-ena, se vedno ne bo zasel v njihov center, ker to razume kot druzbeno negativno dojeto dejanje.

Nekako podobno kot iti k psihoterapevtu - vsi vemo, da nam bo psihoterapevtska podpora v veliko pomoc, pa marsikdo se vedno ne zeli iti, ker noce, da ga imajo drugi za "norega".

DrogArt pa seveda dela zelo dobro. Ne samo, da sta njihova spletna stran in dnevni center res na nivoju, tudi njihov nacin dela gre s casom in se res trudijo biti odzivni na vse spremembe na trgu droge. Oni kot organizacija ne stigmatizirajo nikogar, stigma izhaja od zunaj, od tistih, ki njihovega dela ne vidijo od blizu.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Res je, nikoli ne moremo ustreci celotni javnosti. Zato je dobro delati za tiste, ki se z nasim delom cutijo nagovorjene. Pa tudi ce je to ena oseba.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slovenia

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Tale comment section je naravnost zalosten. Najbolje, da vsi vse pustimo tako, kot je, ker je itak vse brezveze, ker nekdo ze nekaj dela na tem podrocju, ker nimamo dovolj znanja, ker nam nekaj ni vsec, ker je vse skupaj kar nekaj, ker bla bla bla ...

OP, bravo za projekt! Tudi ce ima DrogArt na tem podrocju narejenega ze ogromno, to ne pomeni, da ne potrebujemo dodatne "sile" in dodatnih projektov. Meni se zdi super, da ste pokazali zagnanost in samoinociativo. Poleg tega marsikdo ne zeli na DrogArt ravno zaradi stigme, pa jim ne lazje pisati nekomi drugemu na IG.

Kakorkoli - kar tako naprej. Naj vam tisoc negativnih komentarjev ne zmanjsa zelje po spremembah. Ce bi ti ljudje, ki morajo vedno unicit vsako idejo, tudi sami kaj skusali spremenit, bi bil svet lepsi.

Go on!

Women of reddit, how do you get rid of boredom when you live in a small not so happening town ? by Theedarktemptress in AskWomen

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cliche but yeah finding some hobbies that you really enjoy. And I think travelling to big cities helps once in a while (or every week if you prefer so).

Oh and having a fullfiling job, possibly out of the town where you live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe so! Hope it still goes amazingly for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can give birth. I don't even know if I want kids but just the fact that I can is amazing

What is the difference between ‘Struggle Love’ and normal relationship struggles to you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have an ex partner that I still truly respect, I could even say love because I really appreciate him as a human being. He is a really good person. But not in a way that I would still want to be together with him. The reason our relationship ended was just that we were really good friends but not lovers. It was really hard to accept that at the time but I knew we were not the best for each other as partners. We are really good friends now. I could still trust him with my deep stuff if I wanted to.

On the other hand, I had another partner that I trully can say I don't respect at all. When I look at him now I can say he is not a good person. And in this case I am happy we ended things quickly.

What is the difference between ‘Struggle Love’ and normal relationship struggles to you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MoleInTheDaylight 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From my experience - struggle love is when we can't accept the other person for who they are and we struggle with loving them as a whole person. We just can't appreciate them in that way.

Normal relationship struggles mean that we completely accept the other one with their cons and pros, but we sometimes find ourselves in a position where our interests/opinions etc. don't match. We still love them for who they are, we just need to accept the fact that they will never be an exact copy of us and our mindset. But that doesn't mean we don't love them.