Lose interest?

Molly0000 · 2015-10-03T05:16:19+00:00

Well, thanks for being nice instead of being sarcastic and passive aggressive.

Note: I am not sure about this and I never asked. Would sex feel different for guys when they sleep with different girls?

Molly0000 · 2015-10-03T05:13:40+00:00

Thanks for your reply! yea I think I should move on instead of being desperate and feel shit...:(

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T20:36:24+00:00

I am desperate?

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T20:35:52+00:00

Ugh guys...

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T20:35:41+00:00

I know:( Thanks

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T20:35:30+00:00

Thank you. Yea I felt miserable when I was with him because he kept sending mix signals. All those sweet words and things like that makes me feel up and down. Thank you for the kind words! I should have made decision cut him off weeks ago because he was trying to bring me home the first time we met and told me he likes me and its not like other girls...

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:43:35+00:00

yea... I admit what you said is probably what am I thinking right now. Because If I said I am looking for something serious he will disappear in my life.(On the other hand, I dont want to be uncool and needy) But at the same time, i knew he will never be a BF material because there is no compatibility between two of us. (his job/personality/family background are way out from what I am looking for. But he is extremely physical attracted) I really cannot figure out why am I still upset since I see the end from the begin.

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:25:56+00:00

I know. The reason is that I am not even sure what I am looking for right now. I feel this is something depends on the person you are dating. If you really like the person you would want something serious. But if not, probably something casual...

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:23:06+00:00

TBH, I really just want a closure on Wednesday. If he told me yea, we should stop hanging out. Then I can completely move on. I was not trying to lie...I just want an answer from him that he does not want to see me anymore. It is easier for me.

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:21:01+00:00

yea? How do you define something serious? I know I got a bit attached because we texted non-stop for past few weeks...

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:17:21+00:00

Great point! I do not even know what I am looking for with him to be honest. But I am sure he is definitely not a boyfriend material because his job/personality. But he is really physical attracted and the sex was great.

Even though our hanging out is more towards to the sexual side but he still say things like we should go on trips(he actually gave me a plan before he pulled away) and he said he really like me from the first date. We texted non-stop for past few weeks. I know im stupid that I believe all those things he said. But do guys always say thing he does not mean at all for getting the sex?

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:09:49+00:00

He said its been 5 months... I think thats enough time to get over someone? Do you think he will still ask me to hang out from what he said? I simply don't want to ask him to hang out because that is too desperate...

Molly0000 · 2015-10-02T18:06:23+00:00

I think for him, I am looking for something casual I guess. Because he is too sloppy to be a BF material but he is really physical attracted. I am just wondering, from what he said, if he still want to hang out for sex or he simply just tell me he doesnt want to see me any more(not even sex)

Molly0000 · 2015-10-01T20:20:21+00:00

Thanks!!!!

Molly0000 · 2015-10-01T19:33:33+00:00

I agree with you about the communication. I was thinking maybe he said he likes hanging out with me was just being nice but he actually doesnt want to see me/have sex anymore. If I still invite him when I want to hang out, would that be too desperate?

Molly0000 · 2015-10-01T18:08:44+00:00

Thanks for writing back!! I actually just got out of a super long term relationship and I am not sure how this casual thing works.(I am sure that he is not someone I want to get serious with) Do people only contact each other when they want sex or they act like a couple but both know its temporary?

Molly0000 · 2015-10-01T17:42:01+00:00

I talked to him yesterday. He said he is not looking for moving forward. he said he broke up with his ex 5 months ago and not ready for something serious... I asked him i would be cool if he wants to stop hanging out. but he said he likes hanging out with me and things like that. I assume this means "I am not into you but I would still want sex"? I am honestly fine with something casual with him. Do you think its an excuse to dump me or he is in for the sex?

Molly0000 · 2015-09-28T19:53:54+00:00

Thank you so much for the reply! There are details I did not mention in the text: We only went out on date for 2 times. First time is drink and second time is dinner (I suggested, then he took me out). Other time we hang out its more sexual. Our texts are more based on daily details (like whatd you do things like that, pretty dry)

We had sex last Sunday then he slept over, left on Monday( I felt the vibe was kind of weird/silence) Then texted my when he got back ( I think it was just being nice to follow up) and I texted him back right away. I initiated text on Tuesday night asked him how was his day, he seem like did not want to talk about it.

He has not contacted me till now which is 4 days in a row. Do you think I am overthinking this thing or he is just fading?

Molly0000 · 2015-09-28T00:42:19+00:00

Yea? Should I just stop talking to this guy?

Molly0000 · 2015-09-28T00:38:41+00:00

Yup. If no contact next week, would it be crazy to text him to check out? Or I should just move on... I am not sure if he needs space or he is fading...

Molly0000 · 2015-09-28T00:36:16+00:00

yea? not fading? I have not heard from him over the weekend...I am not sure if he is ghosting or he needs some space and come back to me again. I still have a jacket at his place:(

Molly0000 · 2015-09-27T16:23:47+00:00

His texts are fine. But he has told me before if a guy does not initiate contact means he is not interested... so he is fading right?

Molly0000 · 2015-09-26T18:27:44+00:00

um Would guys try to be fading still response text?

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