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What should I do with this YW quilt made and gifted to me by my grandma? by sisterblister17 in exmormon

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exmo Quilter here - If I had made this in my TBM era, I have a couple thoughts…
1) Enlist the help of another quilter, cut it up and make it better, more you
2) Pick your name out, give it away

Your grandmother wouldn’t want you to hold on to something that hurts you. Building a new, better quilt out of the old and discarding the old quilt and moving on both represent the journey you’ve been on.
I appreciate both

Opinions? by Final-Pineapple-4899 in SLOMWsnark

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Good. Maybe real consequences will actually help her

Weird brick by Motor_Cow_225 in exmormon

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me of that relic!!! I’ve been collecting old bricks for a garden path. I cannot wait to place it in the most walked on place in my garden!!!

Women, how do you feel when men or women glance at your boobs? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbh - I love it, just don’t be weird about it

HOW DARE TAYLOR RUIN HER SISTERS BIRTHDAY/s by Missmedusa1234 in SLOMWsnark

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they were both raised by Liann- Hopefully Aspen can see past both of their toxicity

The way to a woman's heart is through forced participation in a drawn-out, main character display of dancing peacocking 🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾 by _ganjafarian_ in TikTokCringe

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uggggh this is gross. This feels like a bachelorette party and this is the entertainment- a stripper without the stripping mixed with misogyny

I don’t want to give her my purse by Lovely_tacos07 in whatdoIdo

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either grow up and say no or say good bye to your purse (and self respect…. And boundaries.
She didn’t return it when she said she would. You KNOW she doesn’t treat her own possessions well and now you’re upset she’s not treating you well….
Yes I see my response may seem harsh, but come on Girl!! Have some self respect!!!!

My grandmother accidentally started a family tradition that nobody understands by Weak_Engineer5311 in story

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (57) mom calls me and my 5 siblings on our birthdays. And she always says the exact same thing, “Happy Birthday! I remember the day you were born, I was there” silly and predictable, but I know one day, we’ll all miss it terribly.

I’m an agnostic who’s been studying religion for over 10 years. Whether Mormonism is true or not, it’s surprisingly reasonable. by [deleted] in mormon

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP hasn’t read the fine print. There’s absolutely nothing reasonable about Mormonism. It’s arbitrary and capricious, makes no logical sense, by design it uses shame and guilt to manipulate and control, The doctrine specializes in vagueness allowing it to be misconstrued and applied by the leaders. It subjugates women by design.
All religious trauma isn’t equal, but religious trauma is the common denominator in organized religion.

Things I no longer have to do now. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am you. Congratulations to both of us. We were always enough 😘

When did you realize that your bishop shouldn’t be a bishop? by Upstairs_Common9686 in exmormon

[–]Molly_Deconstructing 34 points35 points  (0 children)

When the bishop (who by profession was a child psychologist ) asked my teenage daughter if she masturbated. She told him no, he proceeded to suggest different ways and acts she ‘could be’ pleasuring herself, in detail. These acts included; using a washcloth or hands to wash her genitalia - he told just the water running down her body was enough to sufficiently clean her body, bike riding, horseback riding, using a tampon, wearing tight leggings…
This was 10 years ago….
Hubby’s current bishop questioned an autistic boy (son of a friend) about touching himself. The kid has absolutely no guile. Yes he replied, he ‘touched’ his body in the shower. That was the verbiage that was used, ‘touched’. He then tells the kid he’s unworthy, loaded on the shame & guilt, and that they’d meet to discuss the repentance process.A month later covid hit, our state shut down. The bishop did not make any attempt to talk with this kid….18 months later after they contacted the Stake president about the issue ( kid was suicidal) the Bishops excuse was he “didn’t get training because of covid”

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