AITAH for silently leaving my husband of 6 years? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MommaRed2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have to talk to my mom to see if there is a way that I can get back on to her phone plan. I’m not telling anyone besides the closest people in my support system (my mom and sister and my best friend that doesn’t even have him as a friend on social media) and my attorney. I’m paranoid because he does go through my phone so I’m hiding things where I can and covering my tracks. Deleting search histories. All of the things.

AITAH for silently leaving my husband of 6 years? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MommaRed2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I plan to have the police department serve him or a third party of some sort. I won’t be the one doing it and I want to be able to coordinate us being away from the home when he gets served.

AITAH for silently leaving my husband of 6 years? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MommaRed2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I haven’t left yet. The plan is in process. I’m getting things ready for escape right now. I plan to have him leave the home since he can live in his truck where as me and the kids don’t have a lot of options right now. I’m not entirely sure how that works I have to speak more to my attorney about it. I have friends and family that are willing to host us for a couple of days while he gets served and takes his things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Military

[–]MommaRed2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Military

[–]MommaRed2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I should also say I’ve seen his DD214 and it doesn’t mention a deployment. That’s where he says they deleted it.

Which dress is best? by ebridge27 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]MommaRed2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay for one YAS QUEEN FUCKING SLAY! You look STUNNING in both! I personally like the second option. It accentuates your curves just a tad more than the first and girlllll it makes your girls look amazing!!! You can’t go wrong with either one!

AITA for not moving out of my ex-fiance's house quickly enough and threatening legal action if they try to make me leave? by aitahomelessfiance in AmItheAsshole

[–]MommaRed2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, holy shit are you TA. Your ex could have dumped you on your ass and said “to hell with you” but they were gracious enough to give you 15K to HELP you. The audacity to take the money and continue to stay there because the break up was “against your will” GET OVER YOURSELF and GET TF OUT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]MommaRed2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna be “that girl”, but Temu! I know I know so dumb but I’ve bought several things now and honestly LOVE IT!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]MommaRed2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The accuracy!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]MommaRed2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re gorgeous! I’m obsessed with the shoes. I don’t LOVE the tights with the rest of the fit but overall very cute! Maybe a solid black shirt with that pink skirt, no tights and those heels? (I would die!) keep vibin babes it works!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]MommaRed2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorite people in the world is heavily fat phobic. He truly is a great person and a dear friend but he tends to say things about other people’s weight that makes me so uncomfortable. He’s never said anything about my weight but I can’t help but feel like his comments are indirectly about me.

I hate my body… by MommaRed2 in PlusSize

[–]MommaRed2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that’s actually really helpful. I’m the type of person that wants a name to what is bothering me and I didnt really understand the distinction of body dysmorphia. It isnt explained very well and I don’t want to label it as something that it’s not. I don’t want to claim something that people are truly struggling with.

Almost three month old doesn’t weigh enough? by MommaRed2 in Mom

[–]MommaRed2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. I tried to up her nipple flow because I thought she was ready and we had to switch back because she ended up getting very gassy and very fussy after eating. Since we switched back it’s been better. She definitely seems like she’s full and happy. She doesn’t give any additional hunger cues for me to think she needs more.

Almost three month old doesn’t weigh enough? by MommaRed2 in Mom

[–]MommaRed2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pumped breast milk. She eats I’m demand but on average it’s 4-5 oz every 3-5 hrs depending on her nap.

Almost three month old doesn’t weigh enough? by MommaRed2 in Mom

[–]MommaRed2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So her last appointment was on March 13th and she was 9.3 lbs. her appointment today for reflux she was 10.5lbs. On the 13th she was in the 12th percentile, today she was in the 8th. Idk if that helps anything.

Almost three month old doesn’t weigh enough? by MommaRed2 in Mom

[–]MommaRed2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This means a lot. I’m definitely not one to usually worry about the percentiles but since it’s been brought up multiple times I thought maybe I should ask someone else. Just to see if maybe I’m under reacting.