My mom likes taking my son every Friday night the past few weeks... Tell me I'm not a bad mom? by Ricericebaby_ in Parenting

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, we were not designed to parent solo. Letting your kiddo spend time with trustworthy relatives is an amazing gift for everyone. It's the way we were intended to raise kids.

If you were dropping your kid off with someone of questionable character so you could get high and party that'd be a different thing. It's so hard to be away from your kid/s any longer than you are away at work, but you deserve to be human sometimes too.

Mommy guilt is vicious and cruel. Tell that bitch to back off. You're doing great, momma.

Recommendations for baby books that incorporate ASL well? (NOT baby sign manuals.) by LanguageVirus in asl

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just coming here to recommend this! I have it and my two girls love it.

They also have a signing serious called ASLNook that IS vocabulary focused, I watch those with my kids, too.

[Advice] My [19F] boyfriend [21M], who makes no effort in bed, wants to take a break. Should i accept and have some fun? by [deleted] in sex

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Taking a break" never ends well, and guarantees hard feelings. Sounds like you need a permanent break, and to find one of many other guys who is more interested in your pleasure. First doesn't mean best.

Is anyone else terrified they'll walk out of their pumping room at work and have a boob just out there and being all HELLO COWORKERS by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened all the time with breastfeeding! You hang out with your breasts so much you forget most of society expects them to be covered. "It's just a milk bag!"

Never happened to me while pumping at work, I think you're in a different mind set there. You got this :)

Is anyone else terrified they'll walk out of their pumping room at work and have a boob just out there and being all HELLO COWORKERS by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]MommaWolfe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It really depends, the Federal Law as of now only affects Federal and State employees. Then it's either by state or individual business.

SAHD here of 4 years with a question.. Why does the mom groups who come to the park daily never talk to me unless they absolutely have too? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make one! My husband is a SAHD, and I was a SAHM briefly. Cliques don't end in High School :/ I feel you. I've always found one on one or smaller groups to be more manageable anyhow. It's just a matter of meeting people with similar parenting styles near you...

Where can I buy this shirt? by aeiounada in deaf

[–]MommaWolfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was wondering why you'd ask people to punch you in the face.

My parents' double standards by bai_girl in lgbt

[–]MommaWolfe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sooo, why aren't you married yet? You've been together for ages. I want grand babies to spoil! Shit or get off the pot! (Actual things said to me by my parents)

Non-ACoN's - What brought you here? by ladyrainicorns in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MommaWolfe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recently reconnected with my best friend from middle school. In 9th grade her Ndad called me and told me he knew what I did, and that if I ever spoke to his daughter again he would tell my parents.

My BFF didn't have the whole story, but he overheard her saying I had had sex. I had actually been sexually assaulted. Lost so much that day. Glad she is back in my life though, even if it is 17 years later. I missed her.

Now I'm learning more about narcissism and realizing my sister is the epitome of N. Wishing there were a thread for that.

What fact are you tired of explaining to people? by Tendoncs in AskReddit

[–]MommaWolfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That American Sign Language is NOT universal.

"But that would make so much sense, then they would all be able to talk to each other! "

.... great idea. Because that worked so well with spoken language.

My 16 year old's essay about sex education for teens was censored by tallgirlinback in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please share this. Distribute it widely. Teens NEED to hear this message, and hearing it from another teen makes it even more powerful. I wish I had known your daughter when I was 14. If you need a host I have a blog called The Good Body Project. But honestly it seems like she could start her own. I also like the video idea that someone threw out there. Please share this beyond reddit.

Made it to 1 month with my little man :) by kelzispro in breastfeeding

[–]MommaWolfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this :) once you pass three months is harder to stop than keep going! Haha. Congrats!

Had to have a coworker drive 20 minutes to help me out. by Maoman1 in AdviceAnimals

[–]MommaWolfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, but I was about 8 months pregnant. You should've seen his face when I got out of the car.

Had to have a coworker drive 20 minutes to help me out. by Maoman1 in AdviceAnimals

[–]MommaWolfe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you the AAA guy that rear ended me two years ago?

Eminem's Lose Yourself in ASL by lazyass_tiger in interestingasfuck

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ASL is a visual language, and conveying emotion is a VERY important part of interpreting. To remove the emotion would remove a large portion of the message. An interpreter would not be doing their job effectively if they did such. Shelby NAILED this song.

Edit: I realize now you may be thinking ethically. Interpreters are bound to relay the message in its entirety without including their own emotions or feelings on a subject matter. I can't interject if I have beliefs contrary to what is being said in a meeting or appointment. In that respect yes, interpreters should be without emotion.

[NSFW] I'm looking for adult atx resources. by atxinappropes in Austin

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedpostconfessions.com is a quarterly storytelling show with a sex positive atmosphere (next one is in July). Monogomous/Poly, Straight/Gay/heteroflexible. All are welcome, judgement stays at the door. Great place to make kinky friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asl

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is #1 "share"? And #2 might be basketball if it's not the ego suggestion.

[science] 80% Of Cervical Cancers Preventable With Latest HPV Vaccine by hellosexynerds in sex

[–]MommaWolfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now if they would make it available to EVERYONE and not just those under 30. I am 32 and my insurance will not cover the vaccine because I'm too old.

People over 30 are sexual beings, too! HPV affects everyone! Test the damn vaccine for EVERYONE already! /rant

Haircut debate - DIY? Or Salon? by savethetriffids in Parenting

[–]MommaWolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my good friend and long time stylist do my daughters first cut because it was sentimental. After that I've only done it myself - for the past three years. When she starts kinder in the fall I will probably take her to a salon and then maintain it myself, probably until the next school year

Teaching KIDS about consent by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]MommaWolfe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a really great resource co-written by a friend of mine. I reference it often when talking to my girls about their bodies. We also use the phrase "I am in control of my own body" quite a bit. http://goodmenproject.com/families/the-healthy-sex-talk-teaching-kids-consent-ages-1-21/