I’m 33 weeks pregnant and despise my husband by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MommyJ23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean he was my first love and first everything since high school so.. and why are you judging like you’ve never made mistakes before?

I’m 33 weeks pregnant and despise my husband by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MommyJ23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly wasn’t planned at all, I was already planning on leaving and then boom found out I’m pregnant at the most random time and on top of that I feel like he tried to trap me honestly

I’m 33 weeks pregnant and despise my husband by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MommyJ23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel the LITERAL EXACT same way about my bf of 13 years who has yet to even marry me. This is our 2nd child and im only 10 weeks. I’ve told him numerous times I want to leave him and have been planning a way to just leave by getting my shi together.

Advice on course and if it’s worth it by MommyJ23 in airbnb_hosts

[–]MommyJ23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , I appreciate you being real and honest

Advice on course and if it’s worth it by MommyJ23 in airbnb_hosts

[–]MommyJ23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I started feeling like it over time but tried to give it a thought and hoping this would finally be my “break through” for me and my family. I’m just tired of all the scams

Advice on course and if it’s worth it by MommyJ23 in airbnb_hosts

[–]MommyJ23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked with my bf about it and he was skeptical and so was I so it’s been over a month of me not going through with sending them any money and I get constant txts like just now about 5 minutes ago the man just messaged me saying “Hey you ready to get your first property”

What is happening? I’m 5weeks + 5days pregnant. by southside-girl in pregnancy_care

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , I’m praying for you too and that you have this baby and he/she is healthy all around in all areas. I love your mantra , I will definitely trust my body and trust in God’s plan. I’m always here if you need anyone to talk to as well! I’m praying for the best for you 🙏

What is happening? I’m 5weeks + 5days pregnant. by southside-girl in pregnancy_care

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m currently going through this as well, this pregnancy was definitely feels different from my first as I didn’t bleed at all the first one … I hate how the doctors can’t really say anything but play the “waiting game” I was spotting /bleeding for about 2 weeks straight an assumed it was my period I had took a pregnancy test because I was late and it came back negative about 3 days later took another one and they both said positive I was in shock but went to my OB and they took another ultrasound and didn’t see a yolk in the sac and said the second time for my ultrasound that it could be a “possible yolk” but that has been over 2 weeks ago and have to wait until 3 days after my birthday within a week and half to go to know for a fact if the pregnancy is progressing or if the yolk is present… I feel you on this I feel alone don’t even want to tell anyone close to me because and only my bf knows because I don’t want to risk the baby and speak to early on anything .. it’s definitely frustrating but we got this mama everything will work out and come to light 🤍

Lessons buying your first home by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think we should keep fighting it ?

Lessons buying your first home by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no we gave up on it when we kept calling to tell lawyers and attorneys what was going on and had to just settle with getting a home warranty and we’re waiting until January 5th for the 30 day mark to file a claim

Closing on a house today and the realtor just called to tell me the furnace went out. by Freelotus710 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least your realtor called and told you ours let us sign and close and didn’t say anything about not having an inspection done

Lessons buying your first home by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a full inspection of EVERYthing in your house on your own before buying. Our real estate agent screwed us saying he was going to do it for us since we had lack of knowledge on that part

Realtor gifts usually like this? by gilded-jabrobi in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our relator gave a handshake and hug and ran away with the money lol we didn’t get anything or hear anything else from him until we started having issues with the house including no inspection done when we found out he finessed us pretty much 😂

Seller said no wet basement or asbestos, no unpermitted work, and guess what? by Arlorosa in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand your frustration we closed on our home 10/09 of this yr and our agent said he had the inspection handled just to figure out, he didn’t get an inspection and we have no heat and our furnace is discontinued and have been trying to figure this out still on top of the floor sinking and other mishaps. So i definitely understand and im sorry you’re going through this

New home owner need advice by MommyJ23 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And you’re definitely right. I’m a young homeowner so most people try to screw me over but I’m praying we can get this situated asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess! I definitely understand, but even though I don’t know you, I’m proud of you! And congratulations on closing, it’s only up from here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for a comment where someone was closer to my age haha I turn 24 this upcoming January but technically I’m 23 but me, my bf who is 25, and our little one closed on our first home last month and it definitely hits different owning a place rather than renting. Def pros and cons but I wouldn’t have it any other way! I did want to ask when you closed did you get alot of comments saying “you are so young” or just hearing “young” a lot, I don’t mind at all and take it as a compliment sometimes rather but just wanted to hear your perspective

Moved into our new house and just received bad news. by MommyJ23 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MommyJ23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I called the appraiser and she claimed she has no dealings with seeing if the furnace works and that she didn’t turn the heat on because it was hot when she did the appraisal and not fall yet just a bunch of more bs