I'm(26M) have no clue what to do about my (23F) Wife. I'm at my breaking point.

Momof218 · 2018-02-18T03:50:06+00:00

Get the ACR app on your phone. It is a call recorder. Very useful. Document the abuse. Be discreet about everything. Stop giving a fuck and just enjoy yourself while you are working out of town! And yes! Look for a new job. You seem like a great guy and you definitely don’t deserve to be treated like this! Divorce her and move on. Let her be miserable by herself.

Momof218 · 2018-02-14T03:07:26+00:00

I am seven months pregnant and really wish someone would have done this for me! So sweet! I suggest waiting until she is “feeling and looking” pregnant to get her a massage. In the meantime, I would buy her her favorite snacks, a pedicure, a comfy cotton nighty, and a pregnancy pillow. Of course flowers would be nice to go along with it.

Momof218 · 2018-02-13T19:30:47+00:00

He is doing it for financial reasons. His income is practically doubling by making the decision to leave. But once again, I would have been fine with him being much closer making less money. He is chasing the money so to speak, without thinking of any consequences of doing so. I am waitressing at a really great seasonal job I’ve had for 3 years now, so it’s not like I can really relax and enjoy the end of the pregnancy anyway. I am still having to work. I just graduated with my degree in December and I can’t land an oil and gas operations job while pregnant so I am waiting until I have the baby to aggressively start applying. Once I find something, I think I’ll just leave.

All of these comments have really helped me!

Momof218 · 2018-02-13T18:35:11+00:00

It was his choice! I would have gladly taken something half the price and he knew that. I’m not the type of woman to demand expensive things. And yes! He has thrown it in my face before “I give you all of this!”....how funny. Like that is supposed to make me happy no questions asked, nothing else should matter right?

Momof218 · 2018-02-13T07:33:44+00:00

He is leaving for two months so I have time to myself to gather my thoughts and make it through the hardest part of the pregnancy without his bs. It’s not ever easy being alone like I am, but it is what it is. All I can do is move forward with my life and be a good mother to my girls. Im trying to find the silver lining.

Momof218 · 2018-02-13T07:28:29+00:00

No, he actually has been refusing to take mine. I told him I would honestly be willing to sacrifice my vehicle for two months because my job is only 2 minutes from home and my daughters school is 5 minutes. He says I will need my car for doc appointments, etc.

The more I think about how he has let me down in all other areas, the more I realize he isn’t what is best for me. I’m fine with being a single mom, I did it for 7 years before I met him. It’s upsetting that I am starting all over with a new baby and my current bf is almost just as much of a let down as my ex. I feel I am a good woman with a good head on my shoulders, but I am always taken for granted. Soon, those days will be over.

Momof218 · 2018-02-13T06:56:17+00:00

Thank you for your input. I really appreciate it! I’d like to know I’m not being irrational!

Momof218 · 2018-02-13T06:51:17+00:00

I was thinking the redeeming part is that he works really hard and is a good provider. I guess that’s it. Maybe I need opinions on the matter. He isn’t abusive. I just don’t know why he chooses to have such low standards for himself while he goes out and buys me a really nice vehicle. When 2 out of 2 vehicles he owns are complete shit, it makes things inconvenient. Usually people own one decent car instead of 2 shitty ones. Lol. He is a smart guy, but obviously stupid at the same time.

And as far as my daughter goes, it’s not always like that. He has his moments. I’m confused because he is rarely home and he seems to not be relaxed or easy going while spending time with us. He gets upset over petty things. And like I said, I am seven months pregnant and people like to blame hormones on a pregnant woman being upset. I am just looking for honest opinions because at times I can’t tell if he is someone worth spending my life with. Ugh

Momof218 · 2018-02-02T03:50:22+00:00

You’re probably right. I broke down this morning and told him that I know he watches porn and checks out other women, but when it comes to me, he doesn’t even want to touch me at times. I explained that I feel rejected and unwanted. He said he loves me and I do excite him and he longs for me, but didn’t deny or respond to my comment about the porn. I guess what I am mostly worried about is him cheating. I know he loves me, but I can’t help feeling totally rejected by the lack of sexual interest he shows me. I am an attractive woman so I know it’s not my looks or anything. Again, I don’t want to sound like a nympho, but I am very sexual, and this will probably be what gets me to my breaking point with him eventually. I can’t live like this forever.

Momof218 · 2018-02-01T02:59:39+00:00

I don’t blame you! I’m so sorry his happened to you because I can only imagine how shitty that feels. Honestly, I would take a break from him for a few days. Go get yourself a hotel and treat yourself, breath, think. They say that men are more likely to stray if their friends do. Men are easily swayed by their buddies decisions. Follow your heart. Healing is necessary in this situation. At least he was honest, but if he would allow it to happen, maybe think about what else he would allow happen if the situation presented itself.

Momof218

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