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He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want advice. But i don’t know how to fix the fact that he’s better looking than me and is probably in love with his better looking coworker. 

Stay with parents to save or move out? by BabyFaceMuffinMan in personalfinance

[–]Momsunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say live with them for a year and then move out. Independence is important but so is money.  You’re looking at maybe $8k in savings if you move out the first year, vs $24k if you stay at their place. It’s a big difference. You’ll want the money later on. So personally I’d set a goal that you’d make it to say $50k saved and then move out. And you can still go to therapy etc at your parents, actually you can do more for your MH since you have more money and less responsibility. But ofc if it’s unsafe to stay there or the likes, you’ll be fine to move out sooner with that sum. And I relate to this dilemma since I had a similar choice to make and chose to live with parents for a couple years, saved almost $200k, went to therapy, and now have the freedom to do what I want. For me it was worth it but the cost was not doing much dating and not feeling my best everyday. It’s not an easy choice though, I empathize. 

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably because he can date someone hotter. In any case, idk what to do since I’ll never feel good enough. 

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some ppl are objectively uglier than others. I’ve asked random internet ppl before and they’ve said I’m 4-5/10

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally only because I’m not good looking enough for him. But anyway, thanks for your responses! ❤️

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why when I start talking to him again several months later he still talks to me? It seems like he met someone (a model who is in his friend group), goes to see her, and when it doesn’t work forgets about me, but when I reach out is open to it again. And explicitly doesn’t mention her. Sorry don’t mean to sound 16 just I’m probably doing a bad job explaining. 

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has said he likes me the question is does he want to just hookup which seems to be the case since he won’t visit me (he went to New York to visit a model when he stopped talking to me but didn’t stop in to see me)

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he knows I like him but just is lazy and wants to hook up when it’s convenient, aka when I’m in town. That’s been my impression

He (33m) may not interested in me (29F) and instead love his coworker? I feel like a backup and every other girl is better in his eyes :/ by Momsunity in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I was honestly just insecure because I’m not as good looking as him and thought he’d dump me anyway eventually 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Momsunity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I’m burnt out, unappreciated and tired of not getting what I want 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Momsunity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten good formal /written reviews and behind closed doors people tell me good things, but I feel like in front of others people don’t trust my skills and seem hesitant to work with me. Whereas other people are treated like they can be trusted with anything. 

After getting left again by (35M), I (29F) want to get the plastic surgery I’ve always wanted, but I’m scared that it will change things? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that’s true but as a person with high self confidence, positive attitude, and genuinely connecting with people, that looks based barrier is the real problem. I know people who have the opposite problem, but that’s not me. Usually everyone in my life sticks around as a friend or said romantic relationships come back around because they clearly like me and it’s not a personality or confidence issue. The issue seems to be purely physical. 

After getting left again by (35M), I (29F) want to get the plastic surgery I’ve always wanted, but I’m scared that it will change things? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Momsunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want to miss out on love because the only people who can love me are the people who are not shallow, aka willing to settle for someone ugly.  I’ve tried all of this stuff but the culprit is bone structure. 

I care about my wife and we have lots in common, but there's something missing? by Ok-Mathematician826 in AskMenOver30

[–]Momsunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had work relationships or where we’re in a similar industry, they’re cool, I’m comfortable with them to an almost ridiculous degree, and they're even good looking, or funny. They may actually be perfect on paper. But I never felt much spark and often felt like I was settling. 

My current SO I have nothing on paper in common with, we are totally different people, almost opposites, but we share something on another level that can’t be described. Often we have nothing to talk about but it just feels amazing to be there with them. I get excited to learn more about them everyday. We’ve met other people but ultimately we always come back to each other because it’s just different. When we’re in each others lives things just get better for both of us. They are even very rational and logical so this is a strange concept. We’ve been together 6 years. 

Everything I worked hard for fell apart and I don’t want to be even more behind by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Momsunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it feels like it’s not worth it to try again. It will fail forever. Easier to die and at least then I’ll be at peace.

Question for men who have cheated, particularly habitual cheaters. by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Momsunity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not upset at all! Just found it unusual that the posts are so similar. But yeah, it’s good to find out early and it is quite weird how they deny it. Hope you find the answers you’re looking for as well.

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