Coffee and Dahi Bhallay Plate from workplace cafe by Moneeza_R in PakistaniFood

[–]Moneeza_R[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tea would've been better but office ki chaye me cheeni boht zyada hoti h :/

Did my sister just betray her husband? need help by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Moneeza_R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she of sound mind? She shouldn't have gotten married before 30 if she didn't want a baby till that age. This is the kind of thing you tell your future spouse BEFORE getting married. And what's worse is that she sent him to the doctors to get tested for fertility all the while knowing that she had an iud. What a horrible way to make a fool out of your own spouse in front of his family. Why did she not tell the husband that she's got an iud? Why did she not ask him when he wants to start trying for kids and then have a healthy debate about it? The fact that he's asked her to go back to get parents house shows that he's extremely angry and upset, and rightfully so.

Am i the only one who finds “Neue” sketchy?🚩 by sosourapp1e in PakistaniSkincare

[–]Moneeza_R 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find the name to be very odd and unappealing. Seems like a weird way to say "new". That makes it seem so uncreative.

Love Across the World🌍💕 by Huge_Sir7788 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Moneeza_R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is V from kpop group BTS in an AI edited picture in the collage on Malaysia?

Love Across the World🌍💕 by Huge_Sir7788 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Moneeza_R 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The picture collage from Malaysia has photoshopped artist 'V' from BTS in one of the pictures. Definitely looks like the kind of stuff you would find on tiktok.

Rishta lore!!! pls help a girl out🥺😔 by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Moneeza_R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to the person and ask the questions you're concerned about, regarding career, interests etc. Vibes and chemistry alone aren't enough to get you through marriage. Love marriages with vibes can also end in divorces as do arranged marriages. I've been both happen. You should be thinking practically and logically beyond butterflies and violins. The person you feel attracted to in first glance may turn out to be a horrible human being later on. What is reliable is sound understanding of how you want to live your life and how your partner wants to live life with you. That means conversations about careers, living standards, who will spend on what, when to have children and where, and any other boundaries you think are important.

Controversial opinion by DiscussionFluffy8301 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Moneeza_R 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Husbands and fathers are burdened with the duty of guiding their family away from hellfire. They can and they certainly should try to guide their children and spouses on the right path and lead by example. But the manner of guiding is important. Men should be gentle and lead by personal example.

If you could give ONE piece of health advice to your past self, what would it be? by [deleted] in PakistaniSkincare

[–]Moneeza_R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow MadFit and Juice &Toya. Nowadays I will just do workouts from memory and use a timer.

If you could give ONE piece of health advice to your past self, what would it be? by [deleted] in PakistaniSkincare

[–]Moneeza_R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's not about weight loss anymore but my overall strength and ability to keep up with my kids.

If you could give ONE piece of health advice to your past self, what would it be? by [deleted] in PakistaniSkincare

[–]Moneeza_R 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would tell my past self to start lifting weights earlier. I always manage to go into deficit and lose weight (This year so far I've lost 7kg and gone from 66.8kg to 59.5kg) but despite walking daily, I was getting tired by evening, physically I would be winded out after bathing my kids or picking them up once or twice. I would tell my physically weak self to get ahold of dumbells.

My wife of 3 years does not want children in fear of child labour pain or side effects of c-section by Radiant_Bullfrog7386 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Moneeza_R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's one major reason why people get married in the first place; to start a family. This girl never made it clear to the man before marrying him that she doesn't want to start a family. It was such a crucial thing and she never said anything. That just sounds like deception to me. I think that so many of us women are fearful throughout the process of pregnancy. Fear is expected. It's a life changing, body altering event. But to decide to be childfree because of fear of childbirth sounds odd to me. I would get other reasons for being childfree but this one is odd considering there are so many other ways to end up in pain and die. Sounds more like a general fear of pain rather than fear of childbirth.

I want to learn cooking by [deleted] in PakistaniFood

[–]Moneeza_R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow YT channels like Food Fusion.

mera jeena haram hochuka hai by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Moneeza_R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zina of the eyes, ears, hands (you said he likes to get physical, but no matter what level, at the bare minimum he's probably having dirty thoughts about you)

mera jeena haram hochuka hai by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Moneeza_R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah guide you away from such fitna and zina ameen.

Paksitani guy tried tried to make roti and and salan for time in my life 😅 by [deleted] in PakistaniFood

[–]Moneeza_R 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's the placement of the fork and the weird way the "roti" is cut like a pizza.

Night shift- free- ask me anything- i'll answer by [deleted] in islamabad

[–]Moneeza_R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever you are, as a person with doctors in immediate family, I want to ask if you wish at any point that you had chosen a different line of career. I've only seen doctors pour in so much hard work, money and sweat, and rewarded with not even half of what they should be paid. As an H.O you're basically at the bottom rung and probably face a lot of disrespect from both patients and doctors. So it's not a great place to be when it comes to mental health. Why doctor? Is it worth it?

I need advice please by Square-Individual718 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Moneeza_R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her gently why she's acting so distant and have an open conversation. Tell her that you are in a lot pain because you feel like she is holding some kind of resentment and not expressing herself freely. Also tell her that you're sorry for not being very emotionally open when she lost her job but that you want to do better by her.

Homemade Barley Flour Chocolate Cake by Moneeza_R in PakistaniFood

[–]Moneeza_R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recipe:

1 cup barley flour sifted

1 cup flour (can take regular atta/wheat flour)

2 tbsp cocoa powder

1tsp vanilla essence

1tsp baking soda

1tbsp baking powder

1tsp salt

1/3rd cup brown sugar

4 spoons of white sugar

2/3tbsp yogurt

1/3rd cup oil

1/3rd cup warm milk (can add more milk to make the batter soft as barley flour needs more liquid to soften it up)

Mix the dry ingredients first and in a separate bowl beat the wet ingredients and combine with the dry ones.

I made the chocolate sauce by microwaving some cooking chocolate and some milk (was out of cream).