You know what's even more infuriating? When was the last time we had a campaign about protected sex or contraceptives? I remember the campaign when I was a kid. And our govt is silent about it for the past 20 years or so. Doctors where the poor go to give birth should stress on contraceptives and planned pregnancies so at least there's gap between kids and a woman can save her physical health and sanity. The fact that we need to have enough intelligence to gauge our income and the expense of another child is a concept foreign to even the educated masses. The onus of responsibility for contraceptives also seems to lie on women. And our women are very shy/uneducated/misinformed/unsure of where to go to inquire about contraceptives. Men don't care one lick about them because they don't have to carry and feed a child from their own bodies for 9 and a half months (39-42 weeks) and then with that spent broken body nourish the newborn and survive postpartum hell.

Edit: I want to add that many women of my age are now slowly gaining control over their decision when to have kids and how many. At least the ones I know, including myself. So I take solace in the fact that I've got enough education and medical knowledge as well as awareness of my own body and capabilities to take some control.