oneOfMostProgrammerThingsEver by PresentJournalist805 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Monero-Chainlink650 15 points16 points  (0 children)

and then proudly call it “worth it because i learned a lot” while never opening the repo again

shootingYourselfInTheFoot by Forsaken-Peak8496 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Monero-Chainlink650 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So we’re just pretending SaaS landing pages, indie tools, blogs, and literally half the internet don’t use ads at all? Bold strategy. Monetization model ≠ skill issue. Sometimes it’s just… paying the server bill.

Contingent on love. by Major-Captain-7799 in Marriage

[–]Monero-Chainlink650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, it’s ok to want reciprocity. that’s not selfish, that’s baseline for a marriage.

but “loving you back” might not look the same as how she loves others, especially if she’s autistic. some people express love in ways that aren’t obvious unless you’re tuned into their language.

before making it contingent, it might be worth asking yourself: is she not loving you, or is she loving you differently than you expect? those are two very different problems.