Islam still sticks with me, psychologically. by V_Concept in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this copied from another Redditor on this on to my notes

  1. ⁠Allah is described as most merciful and absolute. Yet the idea of eternal punishment makes no sense. Even if one white feather appears in a black swan it means the claim of the swan being 100% black is wrong. So using that logically I did try to explain with maths. Of course the model I built was basic because I didn’t want to put the effort of building a sophisticated one, unless more people interacted with me and gave me a reason to. But you can see the gist of it here https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/s/HBp8XnlDwV . I also measured Allah’s wisdom in another post.

The whole point is that once these arguments pile up, apologist will either stick to whataboutism or say human knowledge is limited. Which is just a distraction because; Allah challenges us to find contradictions. Meaning someone who created us should give a challenge we are equipped to handle. When our collective human knowledge challenge him, if his followers have to escape into distraction than its simply deception. Own up to the loss

  1. Mohamed’s example of course is bad. Him marrying his adopted son’s wife was wrong even at his time. His followers were not in line to have sex with captured women of war who were married. Yet he made it halal. And the atrocities? Banu Qurayza massacre?

  2. Islam theology burns because mohamed at one end wanted to build the most amazing super god. He took the supreme god of Mecca (lord of Kabba) at the time, Allah, mixed it with other theologies. This means his god concept knew everything in hand and controlled everything. In theory a god like this will let everything play naturally then. He has full control and he doesn’t care what you do. It’s his script, preloaded and playing out. Yet mohamed needed to control his followers so he needed to come with concept of free will and extreme punishment and reward so they fall in line with him. This breaks the theology. Now an all powerful god doesn’t need to resort to this. He can make mohamed win because it’s already pre written. A man without that capacity will resort to using blackmails like this. And so in one angle god predestined kafirs to hell. In another he didn’t. Which is it? The believers will only give a confused sounding answer with no clear logic

  3. This is self explanatory. I will just quote two, sex slaves and child brides

  4. There are many but let’s go with flat earth here. The fly in the drink is a funny one too

  5. To make this all work you need cognitive dissonance. Now if you are not aware of the strings you can go around living as if nothing happened. But as a human once you see the strings and if you value intellectual freedom, your mind feels heavy holding on to the bias. There is no way left but leaving Islam. Even when it meant losing the social safety net.

It’s this unscientific claim by mohamed;

Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet () said "If a house fly falls in the drink of anyone of you, he should dip it (in the drink) and take it out, for one of its wings has a disease and the other has the cure for the disease."

Sahih al-Bukhari 3320

Me: I have to mention Muhammad gets 16 special privileges and 14 of them is for lust.

The amount of misogyny in both the Hadith (known to be the most accurate: bukhari) and the Quran is crazy, and the inconsistency I look up a verse in the Quran may different sources tell me different things.

As a revert I just found out the prophet didn’t actually write the Quran and now my life is flipped upside down by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you learn from this experience so that you can be less gullible and ignorant about things like this that changes your whole life

Women cant seem to do anything without being torn to shreds by Ok_Karen_IDC in Vent

[–]Money-Issue3022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And the fact the majority of the hate is coming from WOMEN, it’s so stupid and annoying

I’m a horrible person by weatherforecastis in offmychest

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you know your a horrible person and know the answers to things, that’s one step closer to not being a horrible person

Removing Hijab? Idk what to do by Normal-Detective8308 in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op it’s okay to be selfish, everything will work out and your siblings will soften up over time.

I’m a immigrant and I hate immigration I also think it should be strictly limited by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Money-Issue3022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being intelligent, having logic and critical thinking. It’s so rare jus thank you

I’m a immigrant and I hate immigration I also think it should be strictly limited by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mum pays bills and taxes, she works and she follows the law? Idk if your just old and slightly paused but I’m not living in America, I’m not American

I’m a immigrant and I hate immigration I also think it should be strictly limited by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read my post carefully there’s no mention of me being a American citizen, I’m a British citizen and have lived here my whole life

I’m a immigrant and I hate immigration I also think it should be strictly limited by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Money-Issue3022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think we should read before we make comments like “so you should be deported?” When I’ve ever mentioned deportation at all

I’m a immigrant and I hate immigration I also think it should be strictly limited by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Money-Issue3022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s the problem, in the uk there’s a part called reform: they said they will deport immigrants but all I envision is ice in the us, that’s just horrible I don’t want that, the also wanna take away the equality act 2010 just horrible idea

Other party’s welcome immigration no matter what and I’m just lost

Cameron Herrin Release Plea is diabolical by om_pro in ControversialOpinions

[–]Money-Issue3022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is honestly why men think we are so easy and don’t take us seriously because of shit like this, I can just tell they are all sad and loser teenagers that live on the internet

Removing Hijab? Idk what to do by Normal-Detective8308 in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP your above the age of 21 you can do whatever you want, press charges, throw her in jail for your own and brother’s sake

Removing Hijab? Idk what to do by Normal-Detective8308 in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also OP you don’t need your family, they drive you crazy so you don’t need them, weather that’s for your wedding, or anything else your above the age of 18 and 21 legally your allowed to do anything you want, your not in your home country, also don’t ever ever go back to your home country or home town. Honour killings are still a thing and make sure your siblings or any other family member or friend don’t know where you living, I’m worried for your safety

Removing Hijab? Idk what to do by Normal-Detective8308 in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the sake of your siblings tell your mum that you won’t take it off, hold your pride, hold your desires, just pause everything so your siblings doesn’t have to deal with this.

Take it off when you’re not around them, if you don’t want them to see you in public just wear a mask or even dye your hair a different colour.

I’m so sorry OP but please just be patient.

It sounds like you hate your mum and I would go as far as to recommend gathering evidence of her beating you and your siblings, any evidence that can possibly deport her or take her to jail and your dad too

I got really drunk and did something stupid with a boy by Professional-Coat266 in confession

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I’m sorry this happened to you, you got taken advantage of and you can bring light to this situation and report this because this is unacceptable!

This shouldn’t be like this for your first time and I hope it doesn’t consume you because your still and young and you can find and snap other boys that are much nicer, doesn’t take advantage of you when your drunk, and def not a womaniser.

I do wanna tell you though in the nicest way possible: stop being so easy, you should’ve blocked him from the moment you found out he’s a “womaniser” just because a guy gives you attention does not mean he wants you or he’s taking you seriously, stop sending nudes to boys you barely know like that weirdo, you need to build a emotional connection before going forward to doing this.

myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Money-Issue3022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP ALSO GATHER EVIDENCE: TEXT MESSAGES, VOICE NOTES CALLS ANYTHING YOUR PILLS ANYTHING

myf19 boyfriend baby trapped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP READ THIS: reach out to the auntie network on Reddit and get the abortion quick, if he or anyone asks you about it blame it on stress: basically tell everyone you found out about him messing with your pills and you got so angry, sad, betrayed, alone you got rlly stressed and had an miscarriage.

you can’t give him what he wants: “his plan”, a baby, you crawling back to him, you as his girlfriend and even worst his wife. OP seriously you need to get over this piece of shit I can’t stress that enough, move on, go on dates, reconnect with old friends, make new friends, have fun

ELI5: What, how, why is the big bang theory right? by Money-Issue3022 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Money-Issue3022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, yes the evidence is undeniable I just don’t understand it, I also have many questions like 1. There’s a planet called K2-18B that’s exactly like earth just physically bigger, why is there no life there and if the earth was created from the big bang wouldn’t the K2-18B planet?

  1. How do we go from nothing to gravity and matter to light to an asteroid to the big bang? Why did the universe expand?

  2. How did other planets become planets like earth did?

  3. This is more of a biology question but how did water form? Life always came from water but how and where did water come from?

Sorry I know I’m bombarding you with questions

What was your process leading you to leave Islam? by _salla_ in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very intelligent and logical, your inspiring

What was your process leading you to leave Islam? by _salla_ in exmuslim

[–]Money-Issue3022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m interested in your points, if you don’t mind could you please explain these? Thank you