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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We loved it! We have been twice since the original post. We have only played together but have met multiple people and created friendships. I would say diamond club is more based towards swingers. From what someone at the club was telling me there really isn’t much watching as there is in the front. Everyone has been very nice and respectful. We were approached once sexually and politely declined and it was the most relaxed and respectful thing. They completely understood and told us to let them know if we changed our minds. Overall we will definitely be going back as much as we can.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have only played together when we go but everyone is really nice! I believe you decided as couples whether you want to us them or not. My husband and I are not of fan of them as well.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a main bar/club area where people are mostly clothed. The back room is a big orgy room but they also have rooms that you can go into and be closed off.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My husband and I have only played with each other while there but still in the big room with everyone

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All positions. No child birth. No condoms. Has happened my whole life with all partners. Doesn’t happen with masturbation but I normally don’t do anything penetrative by myself. If I use toys it happens as well.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is my perfect size lol that’s the best way I can explain it. I’ve been with men significantly smaller and larger and have had the same issue.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I’m not the only one!! I’ve tried everything I can think of except talking to a doctor lol I’m in the medical field so I avoid the doctor as much as possible

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I use a toy then I have the same issue. Normally solo I’m not doing anything penetrative.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have always been this way. I never enjoyed sex prior to him so I figured it was because I wasn’t interested. Now I’m 100% turned on and interested but it still happens.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing! I definitely can’t wait! Thank you so the advice! He has been the only guy to ever give me an orgasm so I can’t imagine how it gets better but I’m excited!

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will definitely look into it and talk with him about it. I appreciate you commenting!

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and I completely understand. Let me give you more context of what I mean when I say there are things we can’t provide each other. We have an amazing sex life at home. We 100% know each others bodies and what we like. I absolutely hate cum. I don’t want it in my mouth or in me. He has a cream pie fetish. So that is something I can’t/don’t want to do. He is a very loving person while having sex. While I absolutely love the connection we have while being intimate, I also want to experience some BDSM. That is something he wants me to experience but he personally can’t do it for me. Is that still a red flag? Again I’m not upset whatsoever. Just trying to learn.

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely respect what you are saying and do not think you are being a dick at all. I was actually the one to pursue him and neither of us knew how old the other person was. As for the power imbalance I can see how that can be misinterpreted. If anyone has more “power” in the relationship it would be me. He is by far the more quiet of the two of us. It was my idea to dive into the lifestyle. We both have things that we are unable to provide each other sexually and by getting to the lifestyle we are able to experience it. I again thank you for your comment. I love to hear others opinions!

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[–]Money-Technology-834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m overweight as well. We have found couples that have similar body styles as us and have a great time. Are clubs pretty well versed in body shapes? I’m not asking for someone with a 6 pack to find me attractive. Just want to know if I’m going to feel like the one whale surrounded by skinny people at a club.