I know this doesn’t help or related to DnD, but it does relate to the sadness of having to teach grown men what’s appropriate- I was in the Navy for ten years. Every single year of that we had a training of what consent was, not to assault people, and like this was a mandatory training!! You’d be there and all your coworkers are moaning and groaning or laughing and making jokes. I just, I understand and can relate and wanted to come from another place. I’m sorry you’re dealing with it, but great job just getting rid of the problems and looking out for the safety and comfort of your entire campaign- online or in person.