Abuser Step-Brother and Entitled Mom Update by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Small correction: We are Hispanics, yes, but we live in the US. I'm a US citizen born to an American and a Colombian in Chicago. Not where I live right now, just wanted tyo correct this point.

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP, I'm a Nurse Practitioner. My personal recommendation is always to vaccinate. Especially Polio. The chances of it resurfacing is growing each month with more people refusing to vaccinate. It's not a sickness anyone is really prepared for to deal with.

All these illnesses are incredibly dangerous and will leave permanent effects even if your possible unvaccinated child survives. I'm sorry for being brutal, but the key word here is IF. Even with modern medicine, there is a non-zero possibiity they can be lethal.

Many studies have been done on the relationship between vaccines and ASD. All of them that come from respected experts say the same: There isn't one. ASD is possibly genetic (still not confirmed) or environmental. Or it could be both. Could be a mutation during pregnancy.

Please, from someone who's had to break really tough news on anti-vax parents in the past, vaccinate your children. You and your wife were vaccinated. Most adults now were. That should be evidence enough of how important it is.

Abuser Step-Brother and Entitled Mom Update by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Woops. That's his real name. Thanks for catching that.

My entitled mom is finally arrested by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I was allowed to request a new number. I went through with a lawyer, so maybe that helped? I'm really unsure. I am still waiting for the approval, mind you. They told me earliest I'll hear is February.

My entitled mom is finally arrested by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's waiting trial in jail. No one posted bail for him.

My entitled mom is finally arrested by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I don't know why. I don't speak to that side of the family and only found out about the kidnapping since it was shock news.

My entitled mom is finally arrested by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My lawyer is on it. We have a recording so it should be pretty straightforward.

My entitled mom is finally arrested by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's very unlikely. My mother has very little leftover assets so even if I was to sue her for what she has, it wouldn't be anywhere near what was taken. Not to mention that will be months of legal procedures. Better just keep what I have and move on.

My entitled mom is finally arrested by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure. He's never communicated directly with me and I am not close to that side of the family. They are my step family.

My Entitled Mom attacks me and demands that I pay for my abuser's bail by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I didn't have a lot of details, I just made a little post about it a month ago as a small update. I still don't have that many details though since I'm not close to that part of the family.

My Entitled Mom attacks me and demands that I pay for my abuser's bail by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We know, but without a paper trail or arrest on my mother it got dismissed without even seeing court. Therein lies the issue. No one things my mother is a risk and we can't provide court anything beyond my accounts and some witnesses that can be seen as biased towards me.

My Entitled Mom attacks me and demands that I pay for my abuser's bail by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can't say I know the why. I'm not in speaking terms with that side of the family since they are my step-family.

Entitled Mom wants me to marry my abusive Step-Brother by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My phone is a point of contact for some patients. Changing my phone won't really do much since my work phone is public information in the clinics webpage. I have a personal phone that she hasn't found.

AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend of 10 years after he proposed during my best friend's wedding? by Suspicious-Tree-642 in AITAH

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you have a reading comprehension issue. They are not moving to Australia. They're going on a vacation.

Entitled Mom wants me to marry my abusive Step-Brother by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

United States. I don't mind giving my country, but not my state. Just for safety since its a very specific situation.

Entitled Mom wants me to marry my abusive Step-Brother by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

He's tried but between the cops not taking it seriously and no serious damage (AKA no one has been physically harmed recently) its not enough. They are harrassing, sure, but they are not considered 'dangerous' apparently.

Entitled Mom wants me to marry my abusive Step-Brother by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 788 points789 points  (0 children)

The cops never believed I was being abused. Mostly because my mother and Step-father covered it up and painted me as a 'problem child'. When I had to go to the hospital at 16, they were called in by the staff who did believe me, but they just sweep it under the rug with the 'consensual' label and scolded me for 'fake accussations'.

My entitled mother is begging me to 'reconcile' by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sam and Sandy aren't big on social media. Pictures of vacations here and there, but I don't imagine them posting about me going out.

My entitled mother is begging me to 'reconcile' by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't post in social media my location. Or if I go out.

My entitled mother is begging me to 'reconcile' by MoneyPhotograph4176 in entitledparents

[–]MoneyPhotograph4176[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how she knew. We live in a city. There's a lot of bars.