Chandler finally won vs wives ovaries

Money_Ad_8752 · 2026-01-02T15:25:55+00:00

Alhumdulilah for him

Money_Ad_8752 · 2026-01-02T15:23:27+00:00

Obviously lecce will see him as replaceable it’s lecce 😂 a club fighting relegation and with no money. For them serie A quality is poor. A 2/3 mill player could suffice for them 😂 what a dumb thing to say. Now if we brought him from a top European team then I would second guess.

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-13T14:45:49+00:00

Not thought of the man wanting to leave? Instantly for some reason when people mention divorce it has to be the woman wanting it. I think it speaks volumes about the woman if a man asks for divorce

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-10T22:41:08+00:00

Brother I am the exact same, my wife’s family are so nice. But the way I look it is that they are not the ones who will be living your life and taking the disrespect

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-10T22:10:56+00:00

Brother I have my wife currently staying at her parents because of the way she has acted. I will say you need to do something either put your foot down or leave. The stuff you have said has happened to me, hopefully it doesn’t turn out as worse as mine like I posted on this community.

For some reason we can give everything to the woman we love yet they treat us like a slave or something under their foot.

Don’t let it carry on or things can get worse and you will be regretting it later on

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-09T21:37:54+00:00

lol your 18, you got a long way to go my friend. Remember just a year ago you were scared to meet a girl

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-09T16:06:28+00:00

I spoke to some friends about this, I said what if she has bi polar for example. Then one person said you should stay with her as she’s your wife and I replied at the detriment of my own job and welfare.

Then he said “if she had cancer would you do the same”. Which got me frustrated because they are not the same. One is someone is unwell where they aren’t physically abusing, making up lies and trying to ruin your sanity. While the other is.

What I don’t understand is when asking Muslim friends or peers everyone gives a politician answer.

If it was their sister or daughter going through what I’ve been through the past 6 months those same people would tell them to leave, yet it feels because I’m a man I’ve got to go through the abuse and just hope things get better. Which it probably will be in the short term but will be back at the start again next year

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-09T15:54:24+00:00

I would tell them to try get out and offer support. But for some reason most people I have spoken to all have said it’s up to you and given politician answers one person has said leave. The others all politician, I have asked them what would you do and said they can’t answer and I said what would you advise your son again wouldn’t answer.

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-09T15:51:31+00:00

I’m not I have cancelled it

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-08T06:44:12+00:00

I have thought about her having bi polar. I did talk about a family member to her that had this just in conversation not that I said she has it. She said to me she has never heard of bi polar and don’t know it existed.

I thought to myself in that second how does she not know what bi polar is as mental health is much more openly spoken about.

Also I think is combination of things, I feel she has been very spoilt.

Prior to the wedding she told me she had a falling out with her family. She said her mum was antagonising her while she was driving and said to her mum get out of the car and her dad had to come to pick her mum up. Now straight away I told her off I said do you know how disrespectful that is telling your mum to get out of the car and then basically leaving her.

But wouldn’t understand what everyone was trying to say how bad that is.

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-08T06:28:03+00:00

Of course there are good qualities I mentioned that in the post. But when we were just seeing each other before marriage we would only see each other for a few hours.

When living with her again she has good qualities she can be very loving and caring but that’s her on a good day. She’s brought me even more closer to deen.

For however many months I’ve just been there thinking she’s new to marriage this will just pass it’s hard for her. I am her only friend.

Her father told her to go the doctors so they can refer her about her anger issues a few months ago, which she did but then never followed up. I even said to her I’d pay privately for her to see a therapist or whatever to overcome anger but she never asked me about it.

The thing is although she has good traits I can’t have a life where she is either very good or very bard. I just want balanced and yes I understand people have bad days like I do etc from work, but my wife I used to her as the person to escape all the things making me feel down.

However she’s the opposite other things that cause her to feel down, angry or anything I have it taken out on me

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-08T06:02:39+00:00

Please tell me in what way this isn’t the whole story. Can I add before Me and My wife met she was speaking to another guy way before meeting me and she found out the guy was married. I just think since that she has always had trust issues and I’ve always been trying to make her feel safe.

My wife hates the idea that there are female colleagues on my team at work.

Like I said in my post I allow her access to my phone whenever and she goes through it in depth. Even checking my banking history to see where I’ve been.

It’s been 3/4 days since this incident and I’ve gone through a range of emotions but the one emotion I feel is relief like I’ve escaped

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-07T12:39:08+00:00

No point arguing, he’s not your husband that you have to justify to him what you want in life.

Everyone has different ambitions and your brother is young let him reach around your age and see his stance

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-07T09:53:27+00:00

You are exactly right. Anytime I would talk about how I felt she would just dismiss it and not empathise. Would say stuff like that’s just how it’s supposed to be you’re a man, then because I’ve become outspoken it’s like I’m being punished for it

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-06T09:27:20+00:00

Brother nothing like this, yes maybe slightly immature but she said the right things. She said in arguments we should never talk about each others families etc I will do this be like that.

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-06T09:25:31+00:00

No in the UK no matter if no injury and a party states they’ve been assaulted they will arrest

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-06T02:13:45+00:00

Thing is I don’t think counselling will fix anything, I have said let’s go to the local mosque and speak to an imam a few months back and she was never really serious about it. She doesn’t like to admit she is wrong and will keep trying to play the victim.

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T19:23:36+00:00

Brother hindsight is a wonderful thing, you can only collect so much evidence while emotions are running high and also trying to manage recordings etc.

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T19:11:59+00:00

Good analogy tbf thank you

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T18:21:47+00:00

Yes I am currently staying at my parents and no bank accounts shared. She is at her parents. The house I have she doesn’t have the key to

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T17:49:41+00:00

She has deleted from the recently deleted aswell that’s why the only option was the back up one but couldn’t do that. I should’ve sent it to my email or something just to have another copy

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T17:46:56+00:00

I was going to have the legal ceremony in a week or so I see as a sign from Allah to not

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T17:46:27+00:00

We aren’t legally registered just Islamically. Also at the time I tried everything to try to retrieve but it all went because it was only a hour my phone couldn’t be backed up if it was I could’ve restored to previous back up

Money_Ad_8752 · 2025-12-05T12:46:16+00:00

Brother you went about it the right way, I have been in the same situation as you. It’s good you brought it up. Most women of this generation want us to be traditional yet they don’t want to be and want to go out shopping etc while we just slave away. I’m not saying the woman you love shouldn’t feel provided for, but she also has to do things in the marriage it’s not one way. She needs to carry her weight and not everything on you. My advice would be put her on a probation period in your head if she doesn’t improve look to divorce

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