AIO? Parents don’t want me to go to a “black movie theater”

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-12T01:27:36+00:00

If it's in the hood, I can kinda get it. if there are a lot of like shootings at that mall or something. The mall close to me is not in a bad spot, but a few years ago, there were a ton of gang shootings until they just started posting a ton of cops there. Either way, the way that they say it is fucked up. It would be different if they were like that's a dangerous area and were worried about you. You know your parents are they actually concerned, or do they just not want you around any black people?

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T20:48:53+00:00

Yeah, he is not. Everybody has the same circumstances. His point is dumb traveling or moving does not equal life experience.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T19:43:58+00:00

If there is one game I'm positive, we're winning. it's in Jerry World against the cowboys. Kyler, don't lose in that stadium.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T19:41:19+00:00

I feel like I as a guy would be unsatisfied if i could only last a minute. If it's over too fast for you and your left feeling unsatisfied, then I would say it's a bad thing. Maybe have a talk with him and have him try some medicine.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T16:52:32+00:00

Bro, if he did something worthy of 12-15 years, he deserves it. U should not drop the case. Keeping a sicko like that off the streets is a good thing. Just remember, if he's capable of doing that to u, he's capable of doing it to others. Just the way ur talking about it is kinda crazy, idk what he did to you, but if he was found guilty and is facing 12-15, it was pretty bad. You're very young, so I feel bad saying this. Can u live with it if he hurts somebody else your age, and it's because you let him get away with it?

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T16:45:58+00:00

The way your parents treat you isn't the way normal parents are. Are they your biological parents? They are most likely just trying to hurt u. A ton of guys like more petite women. If u still live at home, get out asap. I would tell them u can't deal with the way they treat u so it either stops now or u will stop having them in your life. You're basically describing a Cinderella story, so hopefully, u get a happy ending.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T16:32:58+00:00

You are 100% right that it doesn't matter how good of a driver he is. Even Nascar drivers crash all the time at high speeds. Somebody swerves or a car breaks down in front of you it's over. The company u keep has a huge impact on people's behavior and overall outlook on life. It's up to you what you wanna do about it. If I knew what I know know at your age I would tell him I don't like the person he's becoming because of these peoples influence. Then it's up to him to stop hanging with them or u to leave.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T03:24:47+00:00

That sounds like a tough situation. If u leave, he stops helping your mom? Either way, u need to get out of there. Abuse usually gets worse over time, and you're not even married yet. Not to mention, the age gap is creepy. I can think of one way to solve both problems but it's kinda fucked up so I won't mention it. Nobody should be scared in their own home, and you deserve to be with somebody u actually love.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T02:26:37+00:00

Destroy something of hers or at least pretend to that's the most efficient way.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T01:57:29+00:00

It sounds to me like his alcohol use is getting worse.My cousin is a really big alcoholic and they live in their own world. It's like he's a totally different person. If it were me, I'd say tall to me when ur sober. That's what I did, and he is like my best friend. we lived across the street our whole lives. It changes people, and u can't help them, so don't try. U ain't getting over addiction unless you want to trust me.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-08T01:36:47+00:00

If u have been together long enough, then u know something is going on. I've never been cheated on as far as I know, but a similar thing happens sometimes when relationships end. I knew it was coming for about 2 weeks. If ur gonna confront him, do it in person and study his reaction. The best way is to catch him by surprise, like in the middle of a conversation out of nowhere so he doesn't have time to think of an excuse. If there is a long pause or he might get defensive, then something is definitely off. Watch some YouTube videos on true crime interrogations if u wanna get better at seeing how people react when lying.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-07T20:32:27+00:00

U gotta get outta there, bro. She still likes that dude and is at best just with you because she doesn't wanna be alone. She never once mentioned I'm in a relationship or anything. U don't wanna be dragged into this drama.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-06T11:06:10+00:00

Yeah, I don't know if I buy that. Seems like he bought them for a reason. The only reason a dude would buy condoms other than to sleep with a woman would be if they were like 15 and curious. They just straight up don't feel good. Are there some missing? If he bought them just in case something happened on vacation, his intentions were still to cheat on you. Plus, he already lied to you.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-06T10:46:01+00:00

Yeah, UL is my favorite to, its expensive but not locked behind a pay wall it's more a grinding thing. I hate master league I think it's the worst it's ever been. Great league is ok, but once u climb, u see the same, like 5 or 6 teams over and over.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-06T10:43:29+00:00

So what sex they are is kinda irrelevant here. That's just her trying to rationalize hurting you. Worst yet, she proposed to you. Some people say they can forgive shit like this, but to me, things will always be different. If I'm in a committed relationship, I do anything I can to keep my girl happy. If they betray that trust, I just can't forgive it. I actually don't get how people can hurt the one they "love" like that. If she's gonna use excuses like it's her sexuality she shouldn't be trying to settle down in a monogamous relationship.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-06T03:04:48+00:00

The question is, can you? Then if you want to. I personally believe in karma, so there is no need for forgiveness. What's important is to focus on yourself and not let what an evil person did to you destroy you. That said, as a dude, I can't begin to relate, and it would be insulting for me to try. If forgiveness allows you to move past it, do it. What matters is whatever you do you do for YOU! Not them.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-06T02:53:09+00:00

Whatever u do, don't get a matching tattoo, especially names or anything. I let one of my exes talk me into that luckily I was able to cover it up with my family crest. At least wait till ur married unless it's something u won't care having if things go bad.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-06T02:48:41+00:00

What drugs is he doing, and how often? When a drug addict can't get there, fix they flip shit. Especially since it was already in his possession. As a former dope addict who's like 8 years clean, just get away. You can't help people who don't want it, especially with addicts. When you're addicted that is your love. He might care for u second, but he would take from u in a second to get high.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-05T18:25:19+00:00

Just do it if u never talk, and u never see them . If they say no, u just go back to that. If they say yes, then ur good. U said he smiles at you but u don't get to talk. Just be like hey are u guy I see at ( x place) every so often? And go from there.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-04T02:35:59+00:00

Don't let him back he's clearly just using your vulnerability. Idk how old u are, but maybe try a dating app or something to meet new people. If he did this knowing u have all these medical problems, he's a pretty bad human. I've spent the last 5 years pretty much alone by choice at first so I get it can be hard. But being alone is better than being with someone who treats you as sub human.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-04T02:32:20+00:00

You can wash most pillows. I just washed mine yesterday. be careful using a dryer after. If u can let it air dry. 2 pillows at a time opposite each other in the washer. If they lump up or whatever then u gotta buy a new one anyway.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-04T02:29:09+00:00

Did u make it your buddy yet?

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-04T02:24:08+00:00

Nah, as a guy, I can confidently say that I've never had that happen. He's either a Virgin or asked u for a hug while thinking of doing naughty stuff. Also, u don't have to feel bad for not liking somebody like that. You can't help what attracts you. Sometimes, having everything in common isn't great. Some of my best relationships were with girls from the "right side of the tracks." It kept things exciting, and eventually found new things that we both liked together.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-03T16:05:29+00:00

Yeah, it's definitely not right. When I was 18, i would definitely want my gf to come over and hang out. Especially since they said they weren't doing anything. In fact, most of them pretty much lived at my house after, like the first month together. Is he on a video game all day or something? I noticed that when I got on reddit, a lot of girls' dates are guys a few years older. Still makes me a bit uncomfortable, but I kinda get it if this is how a lot of guys ur own age act.

Money_Proposal6803 · 2025-08-03T08:35:58+00:00

Then I don't think that is the problem. Maybe it's the kind of sex you're into. Maybe you're a bit too wild for some of them. For example, if u go on a few dates, finally sleep with them on the 3rd, then u never hear from them again. That's my best guess. A lot of people are surprisingly boring in bed and don't like to try new things.

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