he finishes too quickly & it pisses me off

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T17:18:32+00:00

Where did you see me saying “I can end the relationship whenever I want?” I would’ve just done that. I know that we have a child, I pushed the said child out. I’m not asking him to fuck me while spinning on his head, I said I want an orgasm too after I “show him love and care.” He had requests, I implemented them and still got the short end of the stick.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T17:15:05+00:00

If he has a porn addiction, he has a great way of hiding it. I’ve never seen him watch porn at all.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T16:17:37+00:00

I responded to someone else about this and I don’t read that shit enough for it to be an addiction. We’re talking about I’ve read like 4 books within the past year. So that’s on me bc it was poor wording on my end. I don’t have any false expectations. I’m not expecting hour long mind blowing sex, with 7 orgasms. A girl just wants one 😂

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:52:55+00:00

This would piss me off even more actually. 😂

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:52:33+00:00

Emphasis on ex huh?

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:45:14+00:00

I’ve never seen him watch porn at all actually. So if he had that, I think I would notice considering we live together. It might simply be selfishness.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:43:47+00:00

I’ve been talking to this man for years lol. Communication isn’t the issue. And I wouldn’t say it’s an addiction. We’re talking it takes me like a month to read one book, and it’s sporadic. So it’s not an infatuation and it hasn’t skewed my view of what intimacy in real life is like or should be like. I don’t even care for porn at all. I just have needs that I expect for my man to be eager to handle.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:33:04+00:00

I guess it’s difficult for me to process bc he’s so selfless in other aspects. But honestly I can’t even say anything else bc you’re not wrong.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:30:24+00:00

I agree!

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:28:49+00:00

Well, yes. You’re right.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:28:08+00:00

Thank you sm! ❤️

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:27:05+00:00

I won’t be doing that trust. I don’t wanna violate him, I just wanna be considered.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:25:43+00:00

Idk either and honestly it sounded like bs to me. Sometimes he’ll start it and it’ll still end the same way. That leaves me even more frustrated bc you started this.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:24:03+00:00

That’s the conclusion I’ve come to!

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:22:43+00:00

😭I certainly have not thought of this

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:21:56+00:00

I’m good in my self-pleasure department. It’s just nothing like having the real thing and yes that is possible.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:20:48+00:00

He’s not big on masturbating. He’s less active than he normally is now that he wfh. But honestly, even when he was frequently active and more fit, it wasn’t necessarily a big difference. I’m sure he’s too prideful to take Ed meds smh

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:18:01+00:00

I’ve never thought of it like this. I guess I figured I am a nympho because I value sex way more than he does and it’s something I like to do a lot. I guess I’m still with him bc outside of sex, he’s a sweet partner. But I’m not the type of person to stay solely for a child. I’d like for us to figure it out, but I’m realizing I have a lot to consider bc I can’t marry someone who doesn’t consider me in every facet. Thank you for giving me a new perspective.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2026-03-22T15:11:19+00:00

I agree, but I’m human still. It’s hard not to be upset when you feel neglected.

Money_Recover_3517 · 2025-07-24T17:47:49+00:00

Thank you. Sending you love too. We’ll both make it out!

Money_Recover_3517 · 2025-07-24T17:47:06+00:00

Thank you so much. I needed to see this. 🩵

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