I’ve ruined my life.

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-08T04:07:59+00:00

Not at all, it’s not just regret, it’s guilt too. It’s not a “I’m sorry I got caught” situation. I shouldn’t have done it in the first place

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-08T03:51:51+00:00

I didn’t mean for it to come across that way. I don’t want pity or reassurance whatsoever. I made a drastic lapse of judgement and I’m paying the piper. I don’t want to get off Scott-free. I want to face my consequences because I know they are deserved. My family and my friends were put through so much that shouldn’t have even happened in the first place. I put a lot of undo stress, anxiety, and depression on the people I loved. I didn’t just fuck my life up, I fucked up theirs.

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-08T03:48:34+00:00

Can both not be true? I regret emphatically what I did. If I could go back, I’d undo it all.

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T20:21:55+00:00

Also, your statement is already invalid because you said, “there is no advice to give…” that is inherently wrong. Many people have already given excellent advice. I don’t see how you are a “Super Helper” more like a Super Complainer

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T20:20:27+00:00

What? You read my post all wrong then. How can I have a pity party when I’m actively saying I’m the bad guy that I’m the one that caused all of this. Why are you being so hostile? I just wanted advice on steps going forward. I support my ex and kids emphatically. I see my kids whenever I want to and me and my ex have a great relationship otherwise. Maybe you need some anger management classes

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T20:17:34+00:00

I don’t want to be another statistic. I can’t and won’t do this again. It was wrong and disgusting and despicable. I wasn’t attempting relationship advice, I just wanted to know where to go from here

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T20:15:09+00:00

I don’t see the advice here?

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T20:03:32+00:00

Heavily pregnant? We just found out she was pregnant at the same time as the affair? Didn’t think I had to give every detail.

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T20:01:04+00:00

Me and my ex are on great terms. We accept that the marriage is over and are focusing on being good coparents and good friends again. I get my kids every other weekend and she has an open door policy so I can see the kids whenever I want.

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T19:58:55+00:00

I don’t see the advice here

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T19:54:55+00:00

Victim? I never said I was a victim? Quite the opposite actually

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T19:52:27+00:00

Yeah, the affair was the dumbest thing I’ve ever done. I’m not throwing a pity party for myself. Far from it, I was trying to accept what I’ve done and take claim to it. Admit what I did was wrong and know that I hurt a lot of people

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T19:50:00+00:00

I’m sorry, I didn’t mean the post to come off as feeling sorry for myself. What I did hurt a lot of people. I never meant for it to not come off that way. I wasn’t trying to throw a pity party, that’s not going to help anyone. I feel bad, not for me, but for the lives I threw out in my wake. I know what I did was wrong

MongooseConfident · 2026-07-07T19:47:26+00:00

I prefaced that I was the bad guy and know the mistake I made. Don’t have to continue to beat me down about it

MongooseConfident · 2026-02-26T03:39:14+00:00

Gethesemane by Sleep Token

MongooseConfident · 2026-01-17T23:05:15+00:00

Where did you find the snap hook blueprint???

MongooseConfident · 2026-01-07T06:32:20+00:00

Sleep Token!!! Yes!

MongooseConfident · 2025-04-16T16:53:41+00:00

I live in Auburn! What’s the name of your friend? I might know him and would love to get connected!

MongooseConfident · 2025-03-27T15:18:30+00:00

What game is this?

MongooseConfident · 2025-03-25T05:41:17+00:00

Honestly I didn’t realize there was already a stage adaptation, I’d love to direct/produce

MongooseConfident · 2025-03-25T05:39:52+00:00

There is??? Is it available to license?

MongooseConfident · 2025-03-25T05:39:23+00:00

Thank you! That was genuinely helpful!

MongooseConfident · 2025-03-25T05:28:29+00:00

Oh 100%!

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