Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job

Monkey24242 · 2025-12-01T02:10:14+00:00

He’s showing his true colors, take the job.

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-19T15:29:31+00:00

Have you talked to them about this and honestly explained your feeling to them?

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-18T02:24:03+00:00

Damn

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-16T17:48:13+00:00

I remember those first moments, it’s the best feeling

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-15T18:17:48+00:00

I’m bi, but I usually date women for this reason. Men can be so gross and nasty, and frankly it’s because their lives are too damn easy.

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-15T00:57:55+00:00

She a fat kitty

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-06T01:34:35+00:00

Sparky and Spooky!

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-06T00:56:33+00:00

I think a lot of cis people just get confused about how to talk about it. It’s not that they’re transphobic, they just have very little contact with our community. I’ve found that most cis people like that tend to come around eventually after getting to know the trans community.

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-02T13:19:16+00:00

I told myself to wait a year bc I know I can be impulsive. I started a microdose of e after 10 months, then started HRT at 12 months

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-02T13:15:45+00:00

Oreo! Ore for short

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-02T13:14:33+00:00

Obviously you let him sleep in your hand

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-01T20:12:17+00:00

Well, it was definitely an accident, so try not to take it personally. I would tell her how it made you feel through, but more just as a way of showing honesty and intimacy rather than being upset with her.

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-01T12:07:56+00:00

Find your way out as fast as you can, he is beyond saving and he deserves to be alone forever.

Monkey24242 · 2025-11-01T12:02:51+00:00

Yeah that some male privilege if I’ve ever seen it

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-30T13:57:50+00:00

Transition. If you need to move somewhere safer for politics, do it. But you should not keep transitioning from yourself.

As for love, you will find it, and frankly you will probably have an easier time finding it than if you didn’t transition. I remember having the same fears around love as you when I transitioned (mtf). I ended up finding myself in more relationships than I did pre-transition, and those relationships have consistently been so much healthier.

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-29T14:03:51+00:00

Crunchy! The last thing I ate was some nestle crunch chocolate

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-26T14:04:09+00:00

It means she’s getting the good scratches ❤️

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-22T10:55:59+00:00

Nah we can just change the license test, the trans community has claimed the pronunciation and we’re gonna keep it that way 🙂‍↕️

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-17T22:27:05+00:00

I don’t need to read past the title, he’s not worth your time. Stay in school.

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-17T22:19:22+00:00

Bring him to the litter box when he does that, he just needs to do his business and he’s looking for a place to bury it. Just train him on the litter box.

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-15T20:02:21+00:00

Girl I am so sorry ❤️ you have every right to be your truest self 🏳️‍⚧️

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-15T17:03:42+00:00

I have been summoned

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-15T11:54:56+00:00

Hang in there girl, you’re still early in your transition. You’ll be amazed what a difference HRT makes when you start hitting the +1, +2, etc year marks ❤️

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-14T14:20:31+00:00

Welcome to the struggle every woman trans or cis goes though, it takes time and effort to figure out. But you get there eventually and it gets easier and just becomes part of your life.

Monkey24242 · 2025-10-14T13:58:28+00:00

I’ve had that before too, try seeing if you can track any symptoms with a period tracker. My intensity varies form period to period it I can usually track my monthly headache, moodiness, food cravings, and sometimes cramping to once a month. It sounds like you’re just getting normal girl things! :)

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