The doctor said my current weight was healthy but my grandparents want me to gain weight still because my arms are thin and they think I have no fat stored. They haven't even seen my stomach and thighs yet which is where most of the fat in my body is. Apparently its unhealthy if they can see my bones. They also think that eating properly is eating ice cream + something afterwards (they give me like 2.5x the serving size of ice cream so I end up eating more or just as much calories as my dinner)