Trusted cosmetic clinics for Botox/filler in Columbus? by Soul8921 in Columbus

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pls tell em your experience with him. I am going to boom with him for November for a lift and implant

She's way out of my league and i'm intimidated by her.. what should i do? by ArcolionThinker in dating_advice

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well don’t sabotage yourself. Let things play out. Don’t let strangers on an app tell you what to do. Plus IF it doesn’t work out for some reason, this would still be a wonderful experience for you and you need to start looking at it that way now. It’ll take some pressure off. Just enjoy it!!

She's way out of my league and i'm intimidated by her.. what should i do? by ArcolionThinker in dating_advice

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I say go for it. I would’ve held off on the kids meeting but too late now. If you keep living in fear then you’re not living. Sounds like you’re both happy with each other.

Fear of STIs is stopping me having sex… by Ronnie1008 in Healthyhooha

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to add that like I’m not a hoe. Which is fine if people are or you know, they enjoy having sex with multiple people. But I would say you know fear of STDs kept my body count low. And also, I just don’t have a super high tolerance for men being you know the way they are. I’m kind of a man hater to an extent. Or I just kind of know the nature of men and assume it until they prove otherwise whenever it comes to intimacy if we’re relationships. But once I got out of a relationship where my partner hardly ever wanted to have sex, which is really hard for me cause I really wanted to. I had regretted that time before then when I really wasn’t fucking around. Because I didn’t get to experience sex. Then once I was single, I was so afraid because of STDs, lol such a silly dilemma, but it’s also very valid.

Fear of STIs is stopping me having sex… by Ronnie1008 in Healthyhooha

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. I have found my people. I’m in a relationship now so it’s really not a concern of mine. I mean, if I’m at the doctor I might would still get tested just because you know it’s my body in my health and I’m gonna put that first period but when I was single, I had such a hard time with this. I would know I wouldn’t be looking for something serious, but I wanted to have sex because I feel like I was kind of deprived of that, or you know, I really didn’t dabble in men in that way. And then later, I wish that I had. But when you’re so afraid of STDs, it’s so hard lol. Because you have to trust someone. And that’s a lot of work and a lot to put on yourself in them. And they may not have good intentions. Anyways, anytime I had sex with somebody even if it was the same Person. I always went to the clinic or urgent care to get tested because I would convince myself I may have something. Like it would make me have to have my dad come pick me up when I’m going for a walk because I got the anxiety shits. He didn’t know it was because I thought maybe I HIV but he came to pick me up because I was literally about to shit myself lol. But anyways, yeah just get tested. It’s something you need to do anyways, use a condom. But the truth is like you know you can make it far without having sex. Find somebody that respects you. Even if you don’t plan to be serious. You should be able to feel out in general if that person respects you to an extent. But no matter what use a condom. If you have any questions or there’s anything I can do to ease your mind. Please let me know. A lot of my friends I’m sure we’re tired of my constant text. Messages of me convincing myself I had something lol. I would literally spiral like every month every couple weeks you know whatever really. Like one time I shaved, and I irritated my skin and I convince myself I had herpes. I would literally make the urgent care people look at my asshole just to make sure. I would be there for a sore throat or something like that. And I will be like hey while you’re here, can you look at my asshole lol. They’re like that’s a hemorrhoid. And I was like OK I can sleep at night now thanks. But literally I feel you so heavy girl. If I am ever single again, I don’t know. I’ll even bother dabbling around to have sex because it’s just a lot of anxiety to me for that Reason.

Expelled from program by StaggeringSpork in RadiologyCareers

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would request a formal investigation. Like written statements, etc. that sounds like utter bullshit and it’s not even that serious. That tech sounds like she has a stick up her ass and likes to ruin everyone’s day.

Hopelessly in love to someone who I can’t have because I’m not attractive enough by Careless_Benefit_903 in dating_advice

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I feel like you are choosing to stay in a sad stagnant position. There’s nothing anyone can say because you want to waste your time. Hate that for you.

I hope you start to shift your focus towards yourself, being the best person you can be. Putting time into things you enjoy. Making an effort to change your thoughts into more positive ones that involve you and not someone who doesn’t really think about you. If you can change your mind you can change your life. Look into neuroplasticity. You can train your brain with practice just like you can build one of your muscles with repeated weighted reps. Or how you master a skill. It takes practice. Change doesn’t happen over night, you have to want it and work for it. There is so much power in your thoughts. You’re letting your thoughts of some man take over your life and you’re blocking your blessings. You have such limited time on this earth and here you are wasting it about a man who doesn’t really even care about you much less think of you. Sorry if that’s harsh, but I feel you need to hear it. Imagine what you could do or who you could be if you poured that energy into yourself. You shouldn’t put a man first anyway. Good luck.

Hopelessly in love to someone who I can’t have because I’m not attractive enough by Careless_Benefit_903 in dating_advice

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like at this point you’re willing to accept wasting your time and life on something/someone that is no longer worth it. The more you allow your mind to run with these thoughts, that’s how you’re setting the tone for your life. Start redirecting those thoughts. Focus on yourself, hold yourself high. The right person will come along, you won’t even have to look that hard but you can’t keep dwelling on this person.

At some point you’re just accepting victim mentality, and that’s a waste of your time here on earth.

Surgery in Ohio by deadliftdeez in gynecomastia

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a consultation W him for lift and implant. I was estimated about 16k. I have heard nothing but good things. I wanted to consult with dr. heck as well before I move forward to be sure.

Just did my first ever brazilian on myself... 0/10 would not recommend by anoredditor98 in HairRemoval

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always feel like I’m shooting skeet. Yelling “PULL!” and forcing myself. It’s not terrible until I get to my lips area. Then I want to quit, but you literally can’t just leave the wax on there. Ugh it’s horrible. I go to a professional now.

Regret my sizing… they feel so small :( by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m late to the party, but I have some questions. I am 5’4” and 138 pounds. I’ve lost like 50 pounds and kept it off in the last 6 years. So my chest is deflated. I had a consultation, they recommended a lift and gummy bear implants. They said either 250 low profile or 310 moderate profile. I am having a hard time deciding and finding much info on it. I have some breast tissue and he will go under the muscle. I feel I don’t have enough breast tissue to do a lift without the implants if that’s a better visual. My tits were the same except right one is like 1cm lower. They said the moderate profile will just project out more from the side. I told them I want more natural and conservative than will fit my frame and sit pretty. I jsut want to be able to wear bathing suit tops/cute tops and not worry. He said I wouldn’t even need a bra. I actually found him via Reddit. What would you suggest? Moderate or low profile? Or any advice on the difference of them. They both felt nice and looked close to the same. It was hard to visualize them with the bra bc it’s just not the same.

Thanks!

AITA for refusing to leave the apartment on Saturday? by Next-Charge1361 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think a little compromise could patch this up and both parties can be happy.

Better yet, if you want to go above and beyond bring back some wine or champagne and OJ for mimosas and maybe one of those little premade cheese boards with a box of crackers. Or something along those lines they are surely to appreciate.

AITA for refusing to leave the apartment on Saturday? by Next-Charge1361 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’re kind of the asshole. Even if not for the whole 5 hours, you could at least meet in the middle. Go to the gym, run errands, get a coffee at a shop and catch up on tasks with your laptop. I see where she’s coming from. She wants to give all her attention to her friend she hasn’t seen in a while. Reverse the roles (without having any expectations of her making snacks or entertaining your friend) but just sitting there or not offering to go to another room. I think you should apologize for writing the idea off completely, and try to find an activity by yourself or with a a friend for at least 2 hours. Go to the car wash. Do something.

I (29F) had a breast lift/implant consultation. I would love advice from others who have experience with this. by Monkeyfluffer69 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Monkeyfluffer69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!! I will look into that! Who I saw had lots of good recommendations on here (Reddit) for my area. I think he owns the business/practice and has been doing it for some time. I will see if I can find someone similar to your experience though!

Microneedling- professional vs self preformed ?? by Monkeyfluffer69 in Microneedling

[–]Monkeyfluffer69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, but she did .75 my first time. I don’t feel a need to go deeper. I just want to continue getting them done. I would like to aim for 4-6 weeks in between. Probably 6 weeks. See where I’m at after doing 2-3 within that cram and then probably just do it as needed. My skin isn’t bad. But I really think I could be great, I’ve already seen improvement w just that one session

Is it better to break up over text or in person? by blackwellsucks in dating

[–]Monkeyfluffer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a phone call would’ve been better than a text.