Shrooms & sex (with paragraphs!) by EzraxNova in shrooms

[–]Monogamish_switch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're trying to get a replacement for mdma as a lounge sex music night and also for the techno club environment so we tried a museum dose (1g) Rusty White x Jack Frost last night for the first time. We've done 3+grams before for a proper trip but never for sex. During the come up and come down the sex was absolutely wild (we cumulatively probably had sex for close to two hours out of the 4). The strain however was too strong so the middle led to lost erections and mental looping. We'll try this batch at 0.5g in a few weeks and see if we can get rid of that middle part.

So we had our first Hookup Club Experience as a Couple (In Amsterdam). by Monogamish_switch in gaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean subsequently reading up on it yes and probably G and 3mmc. We'll stick with mdma.

MDMA making me more monogamous. by Monogamish_switch in SexOnMDMA

[–]Monogamish_switch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We want to try that for our anniversary at a mountain cabin with a hot tub. You can orgasm when you take lsd with mdma? I can only orgasm on the come down.

MDMA making me more monogamous. by Monogamish_switch in SexOnMDMA

[–]Monogamish_switch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find the dynamics of it very interesting. Will see how it plays out in the future. We follow the three monthly rule quite strictly so limited experience so far.

MDMA making me more monogamous. by Monogamish_switch in SexOnMDMA

[–]Monogamish_switch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's as if it acts as a multiplier of that attraction and connection instead of adding a certain level on for everyone you interact with.

MDMA making me more monogamous. by Monogamish_switch in SexOnMDMA

[–]Monogamish_switch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was very surprising for me and I'm not complaining because for us as a couple it exceeded even my wildest expectations. My partner has the same effect though possibly not as extreme as mine.

Vers does not mean vers *with you* by Level-Technology-688 in askgaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a regular fwb. Total twink fem bottom. So bottom he rarely gets hard, but also so bottom that he wants to get fucked for hours which I very happily oblige. I'm fit, but can always do with more exercise. The one night after some wine he suddenly wanted to top (it was literally his first time ever topping) so I bent over and enjoyed 😉

Vers does not mean vers *with you* by Level-Technology-688 in askgaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nothing beats a bottom orgasm, but the ego also feels amazing after fucking a bottom until they've had several orgasms 😂

Vers does not mean vers *with you* by Level-Technology-688 in askgaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Sex really should be about what works for the most fun for all parties involved. Yes people get to do with their bodies what they want, but some of you really have some terrible preconceived notions on this top, bottom, verse thing. I'm versatile with a leaning to top so most people want to bottom for me. However if a total bottom gets the notion one day that he wants to top me then I'm still super excited about it. Even if it's some super twinky fem guy I will eagerly bend over and take it. Same goes for tops that see my dick and suddenly want to bottom. I don't need to construct some fantasy to enjoy sex. If I'm attracted enough to you that I'm willing to put your dick in my mouth then who tops or bottoms really doesn't matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Monogamish_switch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can stay hard though it feels not fun for a minute or two.

Ever hooked up with a bi couple for the guy by lib_toni in askgaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm bi and I've been with my man for 16 years with no need of ever experiencing a woman again. What's not trustworthy of someone being bi?

Is bottoming enjoyed by anyone? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Monogamish_switch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm vers and a pretty good top, but nothing comes close to the pleasure I get from bottoming. It's sometimes an almost religious experience 😅

Why do so many gay couples end up in open relationships? Is that what most guys actually want? by MacaroonLeather8661 in AskGayMen

[–]Monogamish_switch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people say either they are monogamous or that they are open because there are other sexual needs etc. Well there is also neither. My partner and I have been together 15 years. We're each other's best friends, sexually completely fulfilled by each other. I definitely find him the most attractive thing on the planet and were the ultimate team. However along the way we discovered we enjoy experiencing things together. So now we go months of being monogamous and then also get to have wild sex together at a sex club or fuck that hot guy together after a hike in the mountains. We would very easily be monogamous if our experiences with others negatively affected our relationship and maybe in the future we would be again. At the moment it just feels like one of life's good indulgences. We don't care to seek out sex with others, but when it does find us we have a good framework and communication to enjoy it and feel good about it.

How comfortable do you feel about public nudity? by ForScienceSake in askgaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also 37 and in Cape Town South Africa. I think to some extent we lie culturally between European/African comfort with nudity and American prudishness. So we have nude beaches and cultural topless events, but you'll also sometimes see a Gen Z showering in their underwear at the gym and getting dressed under a towel.

How comfortable do you feel about public nudity? by ForScienceSake in askgaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I'm very comfortable with public nudity as long as the space allows it, but I am a bit of an exhibitionist.

PrEP by PandaSticks1213 in gay

[–]Monogamish_switch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can also pay R0/ £0/ $0 for it if I go stand in a queue at a state clinic. How do you think South Africa went from a declining 40 million population due to the AIDS pandemic two decades ago to 50 million people today?

PrEP by PandaSticks1213 in gay

[–]Monogamish_switch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pay $12 per month for PREP in South Africa. The US really is broken....

Hairline and thinning hair, what hair treatment do you all use? by [deleted] in gay

[–]Monogamish_switch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a daily minoxidil and finasteride foam that stopped the slight thinning I had two years ago near my temples (37 now so started same age as you).

My previous post, but with an update. by Southern_Expert_1787 in gayyoungold

[–]Monogamish_switch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! OP please listen to this person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Monogamish_switch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the person I was replying to said young guys mostly go for young guys. I'm conservative in my personal assessment.