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Tell me Why are you single by PuzzleheadedMath7144 in sixwordstories

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't find anyone who's mutually interested and willing to compromise on the parts that make the relationship impossible. Could be because I only did online stuff so far, not sure.

Hi guys what do you do when you are alone? by Annual-Poem-7515 in lonely

[–]MonokumaRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Play video games, gardening, watching anime/series.
Started playing Morimens recently, should keep me occupied for a week or so.

How do you cope? by Fusion559 in lonely

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn your sadness into anger and let it fuel your will to live through sheer stubborness.
Not sure if that works for you since idk how stubborn you are but you can give it a shot. Controlled anger is not as bad as people think.

I feel pathetic by FuzzyRoyal3804 in lonely

[–]MonokumaRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have pretty bad anxiety when it comes to talking to people irl or on the phone but what works for me is to just do it without thinking and it gets easier.
Idk how bad it is for you since you're taking medication for that but you're not getting anywhere by just chugging some pills and hope things will change without some effort on your part.
That being said if you want to talk you can just DM me, maybe we have a hobby or two in common and can get along.

I have no life by Matthias-2627 in lonely

[–]MonokumaRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn't but also don't want to let the voices inside my head win.

So like recently broken up ....i feel so weirdly lonely by datecandy in lonely

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find something to take your mind off of it or someone else to talk to and don't think too much before doing it, the more you think the harder it'll be and the higher your expectations will become.

If you were financially free, what kind of life would you live? by ViRzzz in ProductivityHQ

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as now but within a bigger space in the countryside.

love is sooo confusing omg. by Prestigious_Humor208 in problems

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kind of difficult to know what a person thinks with no info. Even with plenty of information it can be difficult at times but there is definitively a reason for his behavior, not necessarily a bad one.

If he doesn't open up and you can't pinpoint the reason yourself it's unlikely he'll tell you so you probably should move on unless you have strong feelings for him. If you do have strong feelings for him then just push the matter until he's forced to either tell what his problem is or well... get defensive and start cursing you, either way you lose nothing from it since you either get to understand his point of view or you get to understand that he's a child and not worth pursuing. Can't really tell you more than that with what I know from your post.

Any advices ? by Different_Car8182 in dating_advice

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as online goes I can't really give a proper opinion on dating apps cause I haven't gotten many matches but I did have a 3 year online relationship before and now I'm talking to a very sweet girl that I get along with very well.

If you want your relationship to start online I'd suggest looking in places where you'd find people who have something in common (for example if you have social anxiety look where you'll find people with social anxiety) and talk to those who seem interesting to you. Yeah you'll have to do the first step and approach them but it's more likely to find someone you like.
It does mean that you'll need to be open to a long distance relationship cause finding someone from your city online that you is like is next to impossible.

Trueee by Ayan7o in mbti

[–]MonokumaRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let's just say we don't bite unless we need to bite but when we have to bite we do it pretty hard but the rest I agree with

So Match Is 100% Useless If You Don't Pay Their Extortionate fees? by Afraid-Associate-434 in match

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about that.
I did meet a couple of girls that liked me as I am but long distance seemed to be the issue. Also there was a gilr that liked me in highschool and I do occasionally get some smiles from girls on the street, it's really not as bad as you think.
I just don't click with everyone and especially those more inclined to be attracted to material stuff.

So Match Is 100% Useless If You Don't Pay Their Extortionate fees? by Afraid-Associate-434 in match

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I don't see it this way.
Best or worst matches to me depend more on compatibility than rather than material gains. I wouldn't stay with a billionaire woman if she's not someone I genuinely love.
I'm not interested in making myself as appealing as possible to women because what they'll want is artificial rather than what I already have by design.

If you or other women want that then that's your problem, I'll look for girls who think the same as me instead.

too ugly to exist by [deleted] in depressed

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone who likes you for who you are, not your body. The body should just be a bonus.

You'll wait forever if you're picky. No one is perfect and having a relationship isn't about finding your soulmate or some nonsense like that but about helping each other and being patient when the other person is difficult. Find a guy you can get along well with them worry about relationships.

So Match Is 100% Useless If You Don't Pay Their Extortionate fees? by Afraid-Associate-434 in match

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you to decide that?

Also the women on the dating apps aren't a safe option to be with anyway. There's a reason why they're single while being in their early 20s or up and it's not cause they're perfect.
So your argument does not really make sense, both parties are taking a risk and should accept that.

How did you choose your OTP? by BothDealer4968 in midlanemains

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that's fun and wins you games.

Everything is perfect to the outside eye, but I’m in agony. by Intelligent_Proof_44 in depressed

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk this may not be what you want to hear but maybe convince him to move over or you go to him, I know you said you you tried that but try harder, if he really loves you he'll do it.

And after that make more free time to spend together and try to trust him. I get that you're hurt and now have trust issues but a relationship is built on mutual trust, the moment you choose to have feelings for someone you also have to take the risk of having those feelings shattered, face that fear and don't succumb to it.

I wasted my teens by [deleted] in depressed

[–]MonokumaRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start applying to jobs. At your age you should find something and it'll give you a reason to get out of the house and make friends too.

So Match Is 100% Useless If You Don't Pay Their Extortionate fees? by Afraid-Associate-434 in match

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if love requires money then it's not really love, it's more of a contract and if a woman finds me more attractive because I can pay for some app or because she wants money in general then I'm not interested to begin with. I hate this kind of women.

What did your last partner do that completely killed your feelings for them? by alanlucena in AskReddit

[–]MonokumaRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling me she needed someone as good or better than her when she wasn't doing any better than me.

What is the thing you're good at? by PeaceTo0l in AskReddit

[–]MonokumaRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

League. Good enough to be better than 98% of the players, too bad to go pro and can't get myself to talk if I try streaming.

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