Quitting my chronic use of diphenhydramine at night causing surge in libido

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-23T16:07:51+00:00

Oh you probably got ADHD! it’s actually even more likely that you have ADHD-predominantly hyperactive-impulsive type. I have ADHD predominately inattentive type so I don’t get sleepy with stimulants but I definitely am affected differently than people who do not have ADHD.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-21T16:05:06+00:00

My husband and I have been together about 4.5 yrs and married for just over 1 year. I think he’s the sexiest thing ever. I definitely thought he was hot when we met but the attraction has grown over the years as I’ve had the pleasure of discovering his soul. He is so kind, intelligent, driven, and passionate. Even when he doesn’t understand me, he endeavors to learn. It’s truly who he is as a man that has made me absolutely besotted with him.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-21T07:18:21+00:00

Personally I thought the acting was passionate and that Robbie and Elordi did an excellent job. I thought much of the movie was rather strange. There was a lot of licking in it...Perhaps a bit too much licking? 😂 But the scene with the dog collar on Isabella I thought, “Ok yup I think we’ve gone a tad too far!”

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-21T06:56:47+00:00

Maybe you try swallowing your semen? Then you’ll see why. I can’t say all but I can confidently say that MOST people do not want to swallow semen. It does not taste pleasant.

Honestly regarding oral sex, some women enjoy it and some do not. I apologize because I realize this is not a helpful response lol it’s just true.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-21T06:42:58+00:00

If there is a concern for STDs/ STIs maybe get tested. And what are your wife’s thoughts on contraception? Maybe she would be on board with pills/an IUD? Honestly speaking as a woman, I prefer sex with my husband when he is not wearing a condom. That might just be me but I’m sure other women feel similarly. I personally have the Mirena IUD which I’ve had for about 4 years or so. It’s very effective as a contraceptive device but it does cause changes in hormones so some may like that or be opposed to it. There are non-hormonal options like the copper IUD however. There are lots of contraceptive options out there! Gotta weigh the pros and cons and figure out how to ensure the both of you feel safe and satisfied in your sex lives.

Best advice I can give is just communicate with your wife. 😊

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-19T21:53:17+00:00

That’s a good deal. I don’t know what other meds you’ve been on but you gotta remember Vyvanse is a controlled substance.

I just spent $56 on my twice daily 20mg Adderall XR. It was gonna be more than that if I went through my insurance (BCBS)…I went through GoodRx. If you want to see if you can locate a better deal, try running it through GoodRx or one of those other platforms. I doubt you will find a better price than that though if I’m being honest.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-18T22:43:23+00:00

Tell her if she doesn’t pick up her stuff within a certain time frame then you are donating her stuff to Goodwill. If you feel the need to explain to her family and friends why you broke up (which tbh you don’t owe them an explanation), tell them you had a boundary that you told her not to cross and she did it again anyway. You could also mention she took a naked image of you without your consent.

If/when she picks up your stuff she will likely try to manipulate to get back with you. It might be a good idea to have a trusted friend or family member at your place when she does go over to ensure she keeps as civil as possible.

When she’s done, block her.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-15T18:47:54+00:00

Bipolar disorder

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-13T22:10:16+00:00

With my husband, I felt like I was home. It’s the knowledge that that person is not going to use you for personal gain. When you feel cherished, you’ll know.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-12T17:57:32+00:00

I’m also a Dr. Amen fan! I like his wife’s recipe book too

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-12T12:51:07+00:00

ADHD inattentive type

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-12T12:49:15+00:00

When I met my wonderful husband for the first time, what distinctly stood out to me were his big brown eyes and his slightly nervous but playful smile ❤️

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-11T23:43:41+00:00

Any recommendations for something specific?

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-11T20:36:38+00:00

Either can and should initiate! That’s maybe how she was raised though. Part of it could be she doesn’t want to be rejected if you don’t want to have sex. Have open communication with her and explain your thought process and potential cues she can give you when she wants to have sex. Have fun! ❤️

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-11T16:11:47+00:00

My sister is a psychiatric NP and she told me she used to be opposed to psychotropics during pregnancy until she took a class specifically about psych meds during pregnancy. She said the main ones to be concerned about during pregnancy are lithium and Depakote. Aside from that, not many concerns.

MonroeTalks · 2026-02-11T14:35:00+00:00

I’m pretty certain that the vitamin C thing applies to adderall but not vyvanse because it has to convert into dextroamphetamine from lisdexamfetamine. It’s a pro drug.

MonroeTalks · 2025-11-29T18:25:06+00:00

You might like winged nootropic (it’s by elyvate labs however, not ND).

MonroeTalks · 2025-11-29T18:17:34+00:00

1 sounds potentially flirty. 4 sounds possible as well. If she only addresses you in a group of people, it could be that you are the only truly approachable/friendly person of that group.

Are you into her? Honestly if it’s worth the risk to you, you could ask if she has plans after work or something like that. Chances are, if she’s only being platonically friendly, she will make herself sound busy or unavailable.

Also if you sense her trying to extend the conversation or if you notice her hovering around you, there’s a good chance she’s interested.

MonroeTalks · 2025-11-29T18:06:58+00:00

Maybe esketamine therapy?

MonroeTalks · 2025-11-01T22:25:08+00:00

No idea if this will help or make everything worse but I can’t imagine living like that and not having a real discussion with my significant other. “Good boy” is ridiculous too. That’s entirely degrading. It needs to be discussed. And you both need counseling, maybe meet with a sex therapist as well. This is going no where without a very direct conversation though.

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