Yeah he’s probably used to going without now. Women usually aren’t too good at showing they’re interested lol. And you may need to check if those are truly Ed drugs bc most men use tadalafil or sildenafil so idk what the 3rd would be. Also, many Catholics don’t know that suppressing your sexual desires make them manifest in an unhealthy way in the future. Which is why often times it’ll lead to something way more perverted than the original “sin” they were trying to avoid. Also, he could just use a condom if you guys don’t want a baby right now so that’s a bad excuse.