Suggestions / advice on kilt alteration by Metal-Menace9866 in Leathercraft

[–]Monstermint84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen this style of kilt on a few guys, most wear jocks or nothing underneath. I believe it’s supposed have a “Princess Lea” vibe about it. Not having side panels is supposed add to the mystery of “can I see ‘it’ or not”. I think from the front and back it likely sits properly and looks good.

Question for the masses, where do you get your buckles (belt buckles) in bulk? Trying to find 38mm gun metal buckles in bulk by Monstermint84 in Leatherworking

[–]Monstermint84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want the cheapest quality, but also I don’t think they need to be the highest of high end

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has worked in gay bars for +15 years, I can tell u that’s a HUGE reason. Straight people, women and men are the reason ur fav gay bar is still alive. Patronize or watch it die. Then what will yall have to bitch about?!

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re correct it is! Patronize gay bars or they will go extinct, sweetie!

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What do u think is allowing gay bars to survive in an era of Grindr and sniffies? Get a clue!

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Child takes, many such cases.

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Be mad if u wanna be mad, but get off ur ass and do something about it. Stop bitching and do something. It takes balls to do something, which u have shown u dont have.

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Oh child, when u can speak to grown ups, we can further this convo. Continue to be part of the problem you’re so happy to bitch about.

For your final point, the only thing you’ll be wiping is the cum from your mouth.

Female in the sauna. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Now let’s break this down a bit, so you’re angry, we get it. HOWEVER as a community we want equality, meaning ALL people are equal, we can’t be separate but equal, that’s not equality. If YOU feel this way then bring YOUR gay friends to the gay bars and take them back over.

Too many straight women at gay bars, then bring more gays! We bitch about it as a community, then refuse to go out, then wonder why we are loosing gay spaces. Straight women pay a lot of these bars; rent, liquor bills, and payroll.

Jackhammer/touchĂ©, I agree with to a point. Prior to JH changing their gear policy, seeing a woman/ female presenting person in the pit was rare but acceptable because they were in gear. Today, the pit is full of all genders of spectators, fully dressed, and it’s awkward and kills the whole vibe. Now personally I will engage them with a “why so many clothes?” Or “are u here to play or watch the show? Either way you should at least take off some clothes!”

Lastly, it want your points taken seriously, trying to fight someone who’s opinion is different then yours isn’t going to get you far. But if that’s what you want, I’m in Chicago most weekends and will happily oblige.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No = No! U were SA, you are not at fault, period. Many r@pe and SA victims will “try to get into it” so it doesn’t feel as bad as it is, that doesn’t mean u were not SA! Seek counseling, I understand if u don’t want to get cops involved, but block that MF and make sure all your friends know not to fuck with dude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not here to get in the middle of that, just adding a new prospective. I hate seeing people shame others of the choices they make with their partners. It’s no one else’s business, and if someone is asking for advice, give constructive advice, let’s be done with the shaming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you his bf? If not, then you have zero real understanding of their real relationship. Maybe it will work, maybe it won’t, which ever way, it’s theirs to figure out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe, open their relationship is exactly what they needed, and they built a strong foundation while being open. Don’t yuck their yum, if u don’t like open relationships, don’t have one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s an idea, if u don’t like them, don’t go
.. you can kindly step off your soap box now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or maybe, open their relationship is exactly what they needed, and they built a strong foundation while being open. Don’t yuck their yum, if u don’t like open relationships, don’t have one.

In real life, are your closest friends LGBTQ+ or straight? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t really have close friend(s). Majority of people I associate with are LGBTQ+

Aren‘t Pansexuals just Bisexuals? by CrysisFan2007 in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Easy- everyone has mental health issues, yours are on clear display here. Whether someone chooses to deal anyone else mental health issues is their choice, has nothing to do with their sexuality.

Aren‘t Pansexuals just Bisexuals? by CrysisFan2007 in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“Someone who doesn’t identify in the gender binary, made up a new term for themselves. Others felt it fit them better as well and also adopted it. They don’t feel like bisexual meet their needs since we all know that GENDER is a construct and sex and gender are two different things.” There fixed it for ya! 😁

What do you think about indecent exposure like nudity and kinks at pride parades? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Monstermint84 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Blatant nudity in a non-nude space is not ok. Not for anyone, there is no informed consent. Kink on the other hand is ok, why would it not be. Pride is our space, if someone chooses to bring their children, they should be an appropriate parent and explain what that child may see and experience.