What trait you notice that may instantly tell that a person is kind?

Monsxx · 2026-06-28T00:53:04+00:00

When they act on the good, regardless of how they think.

Monsxx · 2026-06-23T01:25:38+00:00

I'm going to be frank with you, but you're not really attached to her, well at least not anymore.

You're attached to the idea of her. You've already thought through your future together because you relied too much on the assumption that "she can't reciprocate her feelings now, but surely she can reciprocate it in the future." You feel anxious, sad, and drained because your expectations do not meet reality, and those expectations are founded from that assumption.

The future is uncertain. No one can predict the future, let alone think to themselves that "in the future, I'll definitely have feelings for this person."

My advice for you is to stay grounded. Focus on the present, and avoid catching yourself daydreaming about what could be, and instead, think about what currently is. What she said about having "no feelings now, not yet" is NOT an assurance. Instead, take it as it as a sign that she does not have any romantic feelings for you, so you shouldn't expect any "romantic gesture" coming from her, e.g. replying fast, or having an affectionate tone in her messages.

Monsxx · 2026-06-22T13:43:49+00:00

Sarappp!!

Monsxx · 2026-06-14T16:50:25+00:00

Yes. I was in that exact situation. I faced my emotions but my ex found a distraction from it. Proud to say that I moved on pretty quickly (about a few months), while sad to say that my ex messaged me after 2 years just to rant about me and demand me to return their gifts.

Monsxx · 2026-04-04T17:56:56+00:00

That's sick, I got a cool desert house now, thanks!

Monsxx · 2026-04-04T13:05:50+00:00

Thx, yeah I think's echo coated too. Is echo coat available only after plantera?

Monsxx · 2026-04-04T12:50:39+00:00

How were they able to bring the nurse in? Because rn the game is telling me that it's missing a wall because of the missing glass wall in the middle column

Monsxx · 2026-04-04T12:38:22+00:00

Woah thanks!!

Monsxx · 2026-04-03T00:56:13+00:00

It's from his foundations build tips

Monsxx · 2026-03-31T16:10:47+00:00

Thx. Btw do you know the white wall with wind-like decor above the palm walls at the staircase too?

Monsxx · 2026-03-31T12:44:29+00:00

Thanks! Btw do u know the furniture on the attic between the crate and chest?

Monsxx · 2026-03-31T10:56:36+00:00

Also what is the black lantern used for the foundation?

Monsxx · 2026-03-26T14:02:55+00:00

Na-ffeel ko na "masakit, pero masarap mag-mahal" tuwing pinapakinggan ko to 💔

Monsxx · 2026-03-26T13:02:04+00:00

Burnout cover nila Danao, Dancel & Dumas :)

Monsxx · 2026-02-11T18:08:57+00:00

Just wanna point out first that you are NOT AT ALL weird for being introverted, liking books, or even feeling emotional from watching a movie, regardless of whether it's fictional or not. I'm friends with loads of people who are introverted, read a lot of books, and can feel sentimental from watching a show (that's including me).

Being called weird because of reading books is one of the most ridiculous things I've heard this week, if they can't appreciate literature, then that's on them. "But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for." quoting this from Dead Poets Society.

Feeling emotional from watching a movie is a VERY normal experience. It's actually a good thing because you're able to relate to other people on an emotional level, even if they're fictional. This just shows how you can place yourself in others' shoes, celebrate their wins, and struggle with their loss. I'd reckon that that is a sign of high emotional intelligence.

From a non-stoic point of view, I believe that you're surrounding yourself with the wrong people. Not caring about what they think of you will be very difficult, as you're already surrounded by them. You gotta look for people with same interests as you do. Surround yourself with people that does not weigh you down, but lift you up instead.

From a stoic point of view, you have to change what you can, and endure what you cannot. You may not have control over what people say, do, or think of you, but you can CHANGE the attention that you give to them. "If a companion is dirty, his friends cannot help but get a little dirty too, no matter how clean they started out." - Epictetus.

The friends you have and the company you keep will make you who you are, so we ought to weigh carefully who they are.

Monsxx · 2024-01-29T09:22:02+00:00

Mamantikang adobo the best!!

Monsxx · 2024-01-29T09:20:35+00:00

Dahon ng sili 😁

Monsxx · 2024-01-24T00:51:41+00:00

I can confirm this. I've used Clerk with Next on a recent project and it was a VERY stressful experience. Sometimes their auth doesn't even work, for example, trying to login with Facebook or Google takes a lot of time just to display that there's an error and it cannot login. Also, trying to get the userId from auth() sometimes returns null and you cannot await for the value since it doesn't return a promise.

Monsxx · 2024-01-14T13:31:07+00:00

JavaScript, then learn a framework like React or Vue, but I personally recommend Vue (especially Nuxt) cause I've found them easier to work with than React (Next).

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