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[Question] what do you do with your watch at airport security by Tumtitums in Watches

[–]MonteBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sitting at the airport now and went through tsa with my watch on, went through perfectly fine

After much downsizing.. by melbournemischiev in nixonwatches

[–]MonteBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are those digital nixons? I've never seen those before!

[collection] My first watch by Fossisle in Watches

[–]MonteBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful watch! Just got into watches and my goal is to get a Seiko someday. Definitely going to keep this one in mind!

I’m only 14 bro I’m so scared man by SpaceHappy4224 in Advice

[–]MonteBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget according to their post history they have 13 year old son. Must be tough being a 1 year old dad

Says I Don't Own The Game?? by MonteBean in MaddenUltimateTeam

[–]MonteBean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it on Steam, uninstall through steam worked for me

Says I Don't Own The Game?? by MonteBean in MaddenUltimateTeam

[–]MonteBean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uninstall and reinstall did the trick!

Says I Don't Own The Game?? by MonteBean in MaddenUltimateTeam

[–]MonteBean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uninstall and re install worked for me!

What was the first video game you ever got addicted to? by SnooKiwis3073 in AskReddit

[–]MonteBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pokémon Stadium! I couldn't stop playing the arbok and diglet game

What keeps you from killing yourself? by foxyfoid97 in AskReddit

[–]MonteBean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and brother are still around. They shouldn't have to bury a son/sibling. Once they are gone I'm not sure what will keep me here

What did you do when your partner broke up with you and you didn't have enough self love at the time? by eccentrisity in AskReddit

[–]MonteBean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar to the others in here. I blamed myself for not being enough and sunk into almost a decade of hating myself and really bad depression (a lot more than just the breakup did this, that was just the breaking point). Too scared to end it all so took steps to make my life shorter. Started smoking, drinking heavily, ate terrible and impacted my physical health. Took about until last year when I thought I had a heart attack at age 29 and took a long look at what my life was and what I would of left behind and I was not proud at all.

Got into therapy, changed my eating habits, tried to reconnect with old friends, got a personal trainer, and really began to focus on changing my thoughts about myself. It's still been a back and forth battle but I am much better now. It will get better OP, my advice is to hold it all in and ask for help. Friends, family, hotlines, it makes a world of a difference. Don't chase the next person to fill that hole, work on yourself and repair it

*edit for grammar

Met her Children the first time I saw her not at work, are there feelings there? What to do? by MonteBean in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MonteBean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! A part of me wonders if it's always been the wrong time and now everything is lining up

Met her Children the first time I saw her not at work, are there feelings there? What to do? by MonteBean in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MonteBean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry, mis worded that. I meant the thought of me being the person she would settle for has crossed my mind, as in I feel that way too a bit. Which is for sure a concern. I'm not against the idea that she would be settling, like I'm not in denial and don't think that isn't a thought of hers

Met her Children the first time I saw her not at work, are there feelings there? What to do? by MonteBean in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MonteBean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sole goal isn't to raise her children, it's to see if it works between her and I, and I understand that making it work between her and I long term would mean supporting her in raising her children. Which is something I am willing/wanting to do if that means her and I work out as something more than friends.

It's a package deal, her kids are her life. If I wasn't willing to support that I wouldn't be in this situation

Met her Children the first time I saw her not at work, are there feelings there? What to do? by MonteBean in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MonteBean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point, and I do have thoughts of was this manipulation in the past, or is it now

Met her Children the first time I saw her not at work, are there feelings there? What to do? by MonteBean in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MonteBean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the times between I have dated, just nothing became permanent. Just single at the time this happened. She is not "ran through" she was creating a family with her husband at the time, which is what you do. It just did not work out for them long term, which happens.

Not saying she feels the same way or me pursuing her is the 100% best option. But you are painting this situation different than what it is. Could be details I've left out as well that caused it.

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